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icnmgrjill
09-07-2004, 07:26 AM
For ICN newbies, Diane Manhattan was one of the most quietly, yet firmly helpful and hopeful people on this site. She helped me to start it years ago and worked tirelessly to keep it going. We sadly lost her last year to pneumonia at the age of 41. Here's a note that I just received from her sister Elaine. I thought that some of you who were close to Diane would appreciate reading this.

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Hi, My name is Elaine Manhattan Fuchs, you might recognize the Manhattan because this is Diane's Twin sister. Diane has been gone `11 months and I miss her so much. I thought that looking on this web site would bring her back to me for just a while. I was so glad Jill that you have remembered her in many announcements. Diane had a collection of Precious moments and many were left to me. Today I was able to look at them and put them in my new home.

I just want you all to know that she loved every one of you guys and talked of this site forever. I dont know if she knows how much she was loved by each of you but I do know while she was alive she absolutely knew the love that surrounded her. Thank you so much for loving her.

Jill the many condolences that were sent to Diane's Memorial were read out loud by Diane's brother in law Richard. People came to me afterward having no idea about this terrible illness that Diane and all of you face day to day. It was an honor to tell the story of this network to the countless people who were unaware of this website and was shocked to learn that Diane's relatives had no idea she was so sick.

Diane didn't brag about her involvement with this she just stayed in her work room and helped so many people. I should have written this message many months ago, but grace be to God, he is healing the pain of the terrible loss of my beloved sister. Thank you again Jill for keeping Diane's memory alive in this wonderful forum you share with thousands of people across the globe. DIANE WOULD BE SO PROUD.
love Elaine

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And Diane would be so proud of each and every moderator, IC patient and friend who has taken a moment out of their day to help someone else in need. I'm really proud of you too.

Jill :)

Julie B
09-07-2004, 08:29 AM
Diane was amazing.........she dispensed hope and love freely and every IC patient who came in contact with her felt her committment to this place. I still feel the loss............

Elaine, you should know she also talked very lovingly about you and the rest of your family..........

Love to you and yours..........

Ginny Doll
09-07-2004, 09:36 AM
I had read many of Diane's postings and boy was she ever here for all of us. I think there is no greater gift than helping others and we are truly the recipients.You had one incredible sister. She will never be forgotten. Hugs, Carolyn

Dixiefireball
09-07-2004, 09:48 AM
thank you Jill for shareing this with us.
she was such a lovely person.
Rhonda

Iris
09-07-2004, 11:01 AM
Thank you Jill for sharing the letter with us, I did not know her personally, but from what I have read about her, she certainly was an IC angel. I know her presence is missed by the people who knew her. I myself, am so pleased that she helped you to make this wonderful place for all of us IC patients, to find help, love, compassion, and support whenever it is needed. It was a wonderful letter from her sister, and it really touched me, thank you again for sharing, Iris.

ICNDonna
09-07-2004, 12:38 PM
After reading Elaine's letter this morning, I have spent a lot of time today remembering Diane. Many have read her posts on the boards, where she was unfailingly supportive to everyone here.

Somehow, I think she is still very much with us.

Warm hugs to Elaine,
Donna

Amanda
09-07-2004, 03:36 PM
Elaine,

My thoughts and prayers are continue to be with you.

Love,

Amanda

Lyn40
09-07-2004, 04:14 PM
Thank you Jill for sharing this letter with us. This letter has been on my mind all day and it does put things into perspective. Since being a part of this website, I have felt the loss of Diane and also Debbie this last year. On the days when I feel like I don't do much, I remember those two ladies and the profound impact and support they were to so many of us. I have found a new meaning of strength. :angel:

Kathi
09-08-2004, 02:54 AM
Tears in my eyes as I type this. Diane was so loved by so many of us & is missed each day. I know with all of her love and compassion she is home with the Lord. God bless you Diane. Thank you for sharing Elaine's letter Jill. Love, Kathi

DebbieB
09-08-2004, 03:37 AM
There is not a day that goes by that I don't have Diane on my mind..
She was a very special lady and she help me so much when setting up the
Canada IC message board.
She was always there for me as well as many on the boards..
She was a true IC :angel: .

I miss her so much and I know that Diane is with us all and is watching over
us all.

Thanks Jill for sharing Elanie's letter..
Sending a big (((((((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))))))to Elanie.

Debbie

Katrina
09-08-2004, 08:35 AM
Thank you Elane and Jill.

SueC
09-09-2004, 08:43 AM
Thank You Very Much .. To the whole ICN family and Friends !! !!

SueC ~!~
sclaus1@pacbell.net-----

I MISS HER SO.




Prays for all of us.