Bum sex question.... lol

[Mary-Ann]

Hey All:)


Ok... I was just wondering something because I have tried to work up to the bum sex but somehow its just not working well for me. lol...

My bf and I used a nice bit of lube and he put a finger in my bum... that was ok.. til it was in all the way, it really felt awful and weird and it hurt... 2 fingers was out of the question, even though I really wanted to do this as an alternative to vaginal sex. So I was wondering if the first time everyone else had bum sex it killed like a son of a %#*$? Because I really don't think I am going to be able to do it. How long do you have to work at it before it feels good? I mean it can't feel good the first time at it... haha. Anyways I just wanted to know because I want some sexual ENJOYMENT and not burning pain! Thanks everyone, take care! :love:

[jen_dahling]

Check out this thread: http://www.ic-network.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7340
I think it might have some useful tips for you!

[RedLione]

I think fingers are more uncomfortable than, um, other things. It seems to hurt just a bit at first, but once my boyfriend and I get going (the posters on the other thread are right), it's very stimulating and I can have some great orgasms. Hope you two have a good time!

[PikkuMyy]

It usually takes a little while for your rump to get used to anything being in it. We often start by having him use some lube and just lightly rubbing the outside and then slowly working our way up as I get more relaxed and aroused. This applies to fingers as well as other items. We've also had some really great orgasms that way.