Hubby may be cheating?

[ICLori]

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[ICLori]

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[ICNDonna]

The best suggestion I can think of is to talk with a family counselor. I know you may have to go alone, but it still could be a real help to you.

Warm hugs,
Donna

[ICLori]

I have a psychiatrist I could go to - I can't imagine confiding to her, though, she seems very cold to me. Plus I don't go to her anymore because I had to stop taking antidepressants because my bladder can't tolerate antidepressants anymore for some reason. They just cause me to flare so bad, even ones I could tolerate a year ago.

I don't know what a family counselor could do to help me...actually I don't even know why I posted about this here, there's nothing that anyone can do to help me, this is something I have to deal with on my own. Thank you for the suggestion, though. I hope you are doing okay and not feeling too bad, waiting for your cystoscopy. I hope that your cystoscopy/hydro will give you at least a year's remisison this time.

Blessings, Lori

[Dixiefireball]

Lori i don't know if i can help either but this is true what im telling you.
When i had aol the last time i got message in my mail boxes to me saying we had a great time last night come back over tonight.
Hey i'm in your area lets hook up. Hey Rhonda your husband left his coat over here last night (which really burned me up) but i knew better he is home with me! etc etc.
Now i'm not the type of person who would do anything like that and these people even had my real name. there is no one here (at home)that could get on my computer at that time either it all ended up being spam. or what ever its called:rolleyes:
The reason im telling you this is you may be getting up set over nothing.
Hope all goes well for you.
sending you hugs and prayers
Rhonda

[ICLori]

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[Katrina]

Lori I have said a prayer for you....I don't know what is going on but I know I worry that cheating will happen even though I have a wonderful husband.....so I have a very slight idea of what you may feal.....it kills me. I hope things are ok with you. Let me know if I can help you.

Lots of love
:kiss: :kiss:

[yvette]

Hi Lori, I think seeing a counselor would be a great idea...find someone new and someone you would feel more comfortable with (ditch the cold witch you have now).....they can't really *do* something for you, but they can help you see things differently -- show you more options available.

They can help you feel like you have choices and not so stuck in a dead-end situation. If you already feel lousy physically -- it won't take much to bruise you mentally & emotionally and stripping you of your self-esteem won't take much..... Seeing a therapist can help-- I swear :)

Good Luck Lori! (((((((you))))))))) :hi:

[ICLori]

Thank you, Yvette.

Blessings, Lori