Hi

[Mirabai]

Looking for others in the CT area that suffer from IC .

[floustyle]

hello I am 23 years old and i was diagnoised with ic in 2009 when i was 19 years old and i am haveing trouble coping with it. I started dating a wonderful man during the time i got diagnoised with it and no four years later he is started to get fed up with me becasue i cant have sex very often and whe n i do i hurt during and after it what is the fun in that and when i am in pain i dont want anyone to touch me because i feel like they will hurt me more and when i am not in pain i am afriad if anyone touched me it would trigger that does anyone else feel this way or is just me. i am afraid to tell him because he is starting to think of me as not chelsie but the girl with ic and i dont want that. I love him so much but i dont know how to show him and make him feel good when i feel like crap all the time. i want to jump out of my skin most of the time because of the pain level. i just dont know what to do. he deserves a girl who can be romantic and affectionist and stuff like that. but i dont know how to break through it please help i am so despreicate. i live in new london ct