Friend died and other injured...huge flare.

[bluetart]

One of my friends was murdered, suspected hit and run, left in the cold to die about a week ago and another friend got into a horrible electrical acident this week and will loose his arms because of it. I am horrified by these incidents. when I am stressed i get huge flares mostly because I stop taking proper care of myself and obviously waiting to hear about the condition of one friend and the murder case of another has sent me sky high.

I am also nervious because bad news comes in 3's...always have always will......wondering whats next? How can it get worse.

In addition to all that my bf is once again will be gone all week due to work. So I have work/school/apt/animals to deal with by myself. To much I wish I lived closer to my mom.

I have a great network of friends but they don't get IC, therefore they barely know me. They don't understand why I feel so pathetic sometimes. I am 21 and in pain constanly.

Thanks for the vent. feeling angry and depressed.

[ICNDonna]

I'm so sorry about your friends.

:grouphug:
Donna

[sailawaygrl]

I am so sorry to for you loss, I pray that the injured friend is able to recover and have a happy life.

As for the week ahead, tackle one thing at a time, one day, one hour or one minute, whatever gets you through it. I promise you are stronger than you know, you can get through this week.

Try to rest if you can, just lying down will sometimes help, even if your mind is still going.

Sandra

[Bekah79]

I'm sorry to hear about your friends. I will pray for the family of the hit and run victim and your friend that was injured.:pray::pray: I also hope that your bladder calms down ASAP. :pray:

Take Care

[bluetart]

Thank you for your kind words. I am going to bed early tonight hopefully and will be taking everything one step at a time.

I am still anxiously awaiting for a suspect in my friends homicide investigation. They have identified the make and model of the vehicle. I hope someones guilt will bring them forward.

as for my other friend he is still in an induced comma and has not realized his condition. (he dosn't know that he no longer has arms) It just so happens we was working under the tabe at the time of his injurys, bad news.

[CherylSLP]

I am sorry for your loss.

[SharonA]

I am so sorry for the loss of your one friend. I hope they are able to find the person who is responsible.

I hope your other friend will heal and come to terms with the loss of his arms. I am sure it will take a long time. I hope you will be able to be there for him when he needs support. He will need all he can get.

:pray::pray::pray::pray::pray:

[leelee88]

I am so sorry,, Hugs :pray:

[SueC]

:pray: