I am pregnant

[kelz]

welll I am pregnant :) :( I am a bucket of mixed emotions I am 25 and my bf is 23 we are living together (not with the approval of our widowed dads... his is a pastor) We are starting to get more excited I am not sure how far I am. We are in the process of that. We are more scared of how our fathers will act. I could use any advice on how to deal with pain and stress and most of all Prayers would be great help. This is the first for both of us and its scary. We are planning on getting married(probably Jan). He was going to propose during Thanksgiving we are just bumping it ahead quite a bit!Thanks for any cheap wedding ideas, preg help, and just prayers.
Kelz

[KarenAnne]

:angel:I don't have any advice, but I just want to say Congratulations!!

[tigger_gal]

Congrats. Remember the show with Molly Rinwald, they were at Thanksgiving dinner her single Mother and her b/f family. She says I'm pregnant please pass the ??? lol it was really funny. You could have a dinner them over for dinner and say your gonna be granpa's pass the ??? lol. Good luck Dear

[kelz]

well we told them !!!! His dad the one we were worried about was and is very accepting and well since we are planning on getting married very excited and talk to us about it and all sorts of things!!! My dad on the other hand wont speak to me about cuz he wants to talk about it in person but when we were in person he wouldnt say anything he is not even concerned it feels like did ask how my drs appt. went or anything it really really hurt my feelings. My boyfriend says its dads fault and he'll be the one missing out, but I believe we all miss out when the whole family isn't involved. He wont even talk to me about the wedding how is a "little girl"supposed to be excited when she cant even talk to her dad about it the only parent she has left???

[SharonA]

Congratulations!!!

About your dad...Give him time. He is now faced with the absolute knowledge that his "little girl" is definitely sexually active. That is a lot for a father to grab hold of. They really don't like to admit that. Don't give up on him. Let him have the time he needs to digest everything. Once he faces it, he will more than likely come around and accept this bundle of joy as his precious daughter's child and his grandchild.

:):):)