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AngKat
09-07-2009, 08:07 AM
Hey everyone! Happy Labor Day! I have not been on here in a little while...I miss you all!

So I thought things were going pretty well. Ever since I started Lexapro 10mg a day it helped me be pulled out of the depression I was thrown into a year after I got diagnosed with all this.

Then..
About a month ago...
Mark dumped me 3 days after our one year anniversary. He was also in my band so I had to find a new drummer. Added a new keyboard player. I had to start handling all my own booking/management. My PR guy is helping me a lot and I am so thankful. It hit me college is over & I'm 22 with a chronic pain disease living back @ my parents house & can't live like a normal girl my age. A week ago I had to quit my job so now I'm going through the stress of finding another one...ughhh.

Anyways I was feeling OK b/c I had met an amazing guy. I wasn't going to tell him the extent of all my problems down there..we had intercourse & my vagina flared up like a balloon. It literally looked like it was petruding out of me & it was THE worst pain I had EVER felt down there. (Sorry so graphic). The pelvic pain was ridiculous..I never saw or felt ANYTHING like this since I have had all these problems so I had to go to the ER. Even the nurse there at first thought my bladder dropped. Turns out it was just the vulvodynia..How's that for a date with a new boyfriend? haha. He was really good & understanding about it..but I've felt so emabarassed ever since.

I visited my gyno the next day. I told him I was so confused b/c I don't even take anything for the vulvodynia anymore & ever since I started physical therapy for PFD I have had minimal pain down there. He said I should be on Neurontin 300mg once a day & go up to 4 times a day. This was about a week ago & I'm still on the 300 mg b/c I feel so drowsy. I also feel really depressed. Keep in mind I had been so busy w/ work that I haven't seen my therapist or physical therapist in 4 weeks!! This week I'm going to visit both of those. I just think I need someone to help me feel a little better about myself mentally and physically. I also know Lexapro is prescribed at 20mg..I wonder if my dose needs to go up b/c of all these changes going on? My Mom thinks the Neurontin is making me feel sad & i shouldn't take it. But I really think it's important to try to get all this under control...Anyone have any experience with Neurontin? My brother put it perfectly..he said I have had so many depressing things happen to me in my life in the past year & also been on so many meds it's hard to tell which is making me crazy lol. I like to think I'm not crazy & I know you would all understand that this disease can completely mess with our heads no matter what.

I started guitar lessons..it's keeping me focused on music. & I have a show coming up on Sept. 24th! I just hate when I get in these moods where all I do is dread...I'm sure some of you know how i feel!

<3

dyno
09-07-2009, 08:42 AM
Hugs, you are going thru a lot. I think these are important things to discuss with your Dr. and whatever you do, don't stop taking any meds without talking to your Dr. about it and if you both decide to stop or change meds, let him tell you how to do it. Depending on the med, you sometimes have to be weaned off of them.

lisabar36
09-08-2009, 06:31 AM
Hi, I am sorry for all you are dealing with. I would really talk with your doctor about your lexapro. See what they suggest? I was diagnosed in 1999, and even now, I have times where I get really down, especially about IC. Plus you have alot of things going on as well. I could not get past 300 mg of neurontin, it made me extremely tired, and kind of out of it. We are all different in how we tolerate meds. I would let your doctor know how you feel since you started the neurontin. I hope you start feeling better.