Do you ladies feel pain when you have sex....

[Jempast]

When my husband & I have sex it is painful at first. He tries to slowly go in so as not to hurt me. It only hurts as he is entering and once he is in there the pain stops. Is that normal? Does the pain get better over time?

[stef000]

most of us do...
there is a sex and relationships thread on here just scroll down...
i hope your doin ok
take care
:pray::grouphug::grouphug:

[noble1]

My pain usually follows after in the way of spasms. Sometimes I get lucky and they are mild. Other times I need a heating pad.

[formom]

Try and use a lubricant first. I use Ky and it makes it much much better. It is dealing with the mild flares after that stink but we have to do what we have to do;)

[jameson77]

YES....it hurts pretty bad. Can't find too many comfy positions and i have been in a flare for a couple weeks and my hubby has been great but he's going nuts! i hate it, but i am not doing anything extra to make me hurt any worse!

Plus...we don't have kids yet and want to start trying (again) so hopefully everything will work out!

[Natalie41]

My pain is usually worst the next day. It feels like my bladder has stepped on.