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froglady
03-20-2004, 01:23 PM
is long lol but here is the brief run down.

I started having "pelvic" pain when I was 11 years old, the smart doctors told me it was in my head. when I started getting my period it only got wrse I was constantly missing school and living my life while in bed. At the age of 15 I was diagnosed with reacurring ovarian cyst, ok fine manageable right, nope. From 15 to 19 I was on and off hormone treatment to try to control the cysts but the pain never went away. When I was 19 I was in the hospital 3 to 4 times a week, they thought I was a druggie even though I never wanted drugs just answers. By the time I turned 22 I had 12 surgeries for endometriosis and ovarian cysts. Little did I know I went through more than I ever needed. I went to over 15 different specialists from OBGYN's, to stomach doctors, psychologists, orthopedics you name it no one had an answer. So since it was just in my head, I stayed on my hormone treatments and just learned to try to ignore the pain. Through out my teenage years I had so many UTI's almost every month (what a crock). So in December I started having severe increases in pain and my OB sent me for yet another ultrasound. The ultrasound tech was the same one I had had for years and was not surprised to see me back. WE didn't find any cysts but the tech decided she was curious and did a partial abdominal US. To my surprise she found that my kidneys were inlarged and the doctors thought I had hydro nephrosis. (back wash of urine from the bladder that enlarges and destroys the kidneys) So my OB was shocked that no one had found this since you are most commonly born with it. So off to the urologist I go, the one specialist i had never seen before. So I had to wait a month to see him, it was awful waiting that long thinking I was going to have kidney failure. Finally the day comes and the doctor sends me straight to the hospital of an IVP (shows if you have any free flowing urine any where it doesn't belong) I had none!!! woohoo!!
He was still concerned with that fact that i had so much abdominal pain and agreed to try and help me figure it out. So I had CAT Scans, MRI's, Colonoscopy's, Blood work. And the only thing we coud find was IBS. So he decided that it was time for a cystoscopy. I was so afraid!!! One I didn't want anything put up where it didn't belong, I had already felt so violated by everyone. On top off that I have no insurance so all of these tests and doctors were costing me a fortune, I had a little money saved, most doctors were giving me discounts, the hospital of course wouldn't. I was getting ready to hit red quick. The doctor agreed to do it in the office and just borrow a few things from the hospital lol. So it was going to cost but not nearly as much as being put to sleep up at the hospital. So now I'm more afraid thinking I'M GOING TO BE AWAKE!!???? So the day finally comes the nurse says it won't hurt, I believe her. The doctor comes in and about 2 minutes in I'm in sobs it hurt so bad, the nurse had the guts to say I'm so sorry I forgot some patients experience pain.URG!!! So it's finally over I'm bleeding from places I shouldn't be and I'm sitting in his office.......Yup finally an answer I have IC. It's only been over a month and my life is so different. My biggest frustratons to this point are: I feel like I'm starving, I don't want to see any more medical bills, and the big one of the month....have meds that may finally help end some suffering and no being able to afford them. My doctor and I are in the process of waiting for my approval or denial from Elmiron. I hope that this is now the beginning to recovery and more understanding.

Sarojini
03-20-2004, 01:37 PM
Hi Froglady... I cannot believe how much you've gone through without insurance....

I replied to your post in the "newly diagnosed" chat, but I just feel for you so much, having to go through all of that.

Where you are from in Massachusetts? I grew up in Gardner, which is about 20 minutes north of Worcester and about an hour west of Boston out Route 2. Email me at jen424@earthlink.net if you want to talk.

Jen

froglady
03-20-2004, 01:50 PM
I actually am not that far from there, I live in Attleboro. I used to live in Woburn so I'm familiar with the area.

The insurance thing...yeah it's awful but the advantage was I could see any doctor I wanted not what my health insurance said. I feel that's the only reason I finally got diagnosed. I would love to have it now but that's life lol. I'm just happy that I can finally move forward with treatment finally knowing the cause!!!

Sarojini
03-20-2004, 02:25 PM
I know what you mean about insurance dictating what doctor you see... I was like that for many years. Now, I am lucky. I have one of the last "hold-out" insurance companies... they don't require referrals, and I'm allowed to just pick whatever doctor I would like to see, as long as they are included in the plan. So, when I decided I needed a urologist, I went to see one, no questions asked...

I wish EVERYONE'S insurance was like this. EVERYONE in this country deserves affordable, reliable, compassionate healthcare.... regardless of how long they've worked someplace, or what their insurance will pay for.

Ok, I am off my soapbox for now..

I know Attleboro! You really are not too far from where I grew up...

Are you buried in snow? :)

Jen

froglady
03-20-2004, 02:30 PM
11 inches total since wednesday. i thought spring was here! Have to hate New England!!!! lol

vm
03-20-2004, 03:13 PM
Wow.... You lived a lot of years in pain. :(

I am so glad to hear that you have a name for what is going on and that you are on the road to finding treatments that help and to feeling better! :)

Dixiefireball
03-21-2004, 01:15 AM
i was born with three kidneys i have had five surgery on my bladder i have lived with pain my whole life also but i was so shocked to hear my doctor say i had ic i didn't even know what it was.
as far as your medicines go please check out the low income board you may have to go back a little ways in it but i have all type of web links that will help people with there medicine even some will help with pain medicine i'm sure if your doctor office trun you down for the elimron then i can help you some how i have so many GREAT LINKS and would be more then happy to help you.
as far as inc goes have you tried to sign up for medicaid??? that would also help a great deal.
if you want my help give me a buzz at sassynsweet026@yahoo.com
Rhonda

tigger_gal
03-21-2004, 04:36 AM
so much to go thru with out insurance... hugs to you and hope you have pain free days
Brat

ICNJess
03-21-2004, 08:07 AM
Hi there,

Your story reads exactly as mine. Check it out at http://www.ic-network.com/patientstories/jessica.html

I kid you not, these two stories are identical. I did leave out in my patient story that I was diagnosed with IBS before IC. I was so upset with doctors, they just did not want to diagnose me because I was so young! I almost went through with having a cysto/hydro without anthestetic, for insurance reasons, but they told me up front if I had IC I would be in a world of pain throughout this. :( It stinks that your doctor left that part out! :mad:

Good luck,
Jess