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MomRN
05-31-2008, 06:45 PM
Oh this is frustrating.

I'm not being "treated" for IC.

I'm being treated for "urethritis" via antibiotic/steroid combo to compound the urethral suppositories. Not my first choice but my second choice was "urethral injections". Gag. I couldn't wrap my mind around that choice.

I still hurt... everyday. Worse with my cycle. No heavy bleeding but gyne and Reprod Endo (just went to Reprod Endo for endometriosis expertise) both MDs believe I have adenomyosis.

The pain is definitely affecting my life although I am able to function for the most part.

No sex life whatsoever. Way too painful. Intercourse isn't half the pain... the big O causes horrible pain. I told DH we could try a couple weeks ago. I felt badly b/c I don't want my DH to feel "guilty". Then I feel guilty b/c I just cannot do it. He doesn't put pressure on me so why do I still feel badly? Probably b/c it isn't supposed to be this way.

It just SUCKS that it affects so much of life.

So.... "trigonitis". MD did NOT say "trigonitis" in the office. He said "urethritis". My in-office cystoscopy was at the end of March. I've been on these suppositories for nearly 8 weeks.

Not much relief.

I'm 36 and used to playing and being active. I loved being on the go go go. Now I don't wanna. I'm tall and small frame. Sometimes wonder if my body proportions have anything to do with this.

By the time late afternoon/evening come, my pain seems exacerbated simply by the passing of time being awake and up.

I'm looking to get 2nd opinion. I think my Uro/Gyn MD is a smart fella BUT I have serious trust issues. He said my cysto would be "fun" and "really won't be bad". I had the lidocaine jelly before cath insertion. My cysto sucked. It hurt and I was ticked that he made it out to be "cake". And he doesn't have a nurse. I am a nurse and want my physician to have a nurse.

It's late and this might not even make much sense.

I posted an earlier update this week that another doc recommends a hysteretomy.

Decisions. Overwhelming stuff.

charmedx3
05-31-2008, 06:52 PM
OH YEAH 2nd OPINON! if you need a 3rd or 4th do it until you feel comfortable. good luck!

mlzippy7
05-31-2008, 06:54 PM
I hope things work out for you!!

Briza
05-31-2008, 07:31 PM
Wow, I agree, lots of overwhelming stuff. :( I second the others on getting a second opinion.
I also found out info my uro didn't tell me after my hydro... when I finally got my own copy of my post op reports a couple years later...that I had hunner's ulcers in bladder that were burned off and how much I was distended, so yeah, I've learned to ask for those reports ASAP.
I dunno why they would not tell all. :confused: Well, I'm glad you're aware now of what's going on in his mind and what you're being treated for...I'm sure it was frustrating to find out everything wasn't as you thought! I would want a female nurse, too, if my uro was male.
Sorry things aren't going better...hope you get some relief and answers soon!
Best wishes:)
Bri

ICNDonna
06-01-2008, 02:31 AM
It does sound like second opinion time. Any time you don't feel comfortable with what you are being told, a second opinion is a good idea.

Donna

dyno
06-01-2008, 07:55 AM
Definately 2nd opinion time.