whats right? whats wrong?

[tigger_gal]

I don't post here very often but have found myself buried n a huge pile and can't seem to shake it off. I have missed so many of your posts and I am so sorry I have not posted back. My sisters daughter has created a world of problems, to start with the most recent B>S> the week before thanksgiving she had a massive fit at foster care screaming to the top of her lungs that her baby was ill and running a raging fever and she needed a to take her temp. and to call 911 for an ambulance. She sad her ears were plugged and couldn't hear, and there was bruises on her face, and a few other things that were untrue. She demanded that they call 911 and get her medical attention because was unfit.
Then she missed the following visiit the day b4 thanksgiving, a no call no show, went to the next one and my bottles gave her gas, am not to pierce her ears (the thought never entered my mind) She loosened all the car seat buckles on the care seat and screamed at the transporter, the next visit she missed, and Tuesdays doctors appointment. Which she screamed in Gary's face demanding to file a complaint because I didn't tell her, and she should have given 24 hour notice, She did know, she went to the October appointment with me and the dr did giver her a printed out copy of the next appointment..
Jake s getting really bad, will tell you about that when get back from the testing at 8 am... o I have to get off here and get going. I did take hm to the hosiptal for fragile x testing, but the blood work will take 14 days.. so any who wll fillyou n on the rest when I get back

[leelee88]

Big (((((hugs))))) Tig I know you are going through alot.. You know I am here for you anytime day or night!!

[Sally939]

I am sorry. It sounds like she is just showing everyone how out of control and mentally ill she is. I would hate to have to deal with her. At what point will you not have to keep her involved? Will she ever not be able to get involved on her own? The sadest thing is the kids will get older and her actutions will hurt them mentally.

[GriffsMommy]

Cindy that girl is nuts and you know this. I'm so sorry she puts you through all of this crap. You are taking care of her children becasue she will not and did not and this is the thanks you get. You know where to find me. I started my disability so I'm here other than when I'm going to my many appointments. :grouphug:

[ICNDonna]

You can do this! I know you can. I remember how difficult it was when you first got Jake. The ride won't be smooth, but you can do it.

Warm hugs,
Donna

[SharonA]

Keep doing what you are doing. Loving those kids and taking great care of them. You will get through all of this.

[Claredale]

You are doing an amazing job taking care of those kids! I cannot imagine what you are going through and you seem to be dealing very well with the stress of all of this.

Hugs and prayers coming your way!
Tracey

[BBB]

Cindy,
Ok, that girl is crazy and her children are blessed to have you and to be your children!!!

You are the greatest and will rise above this! My prayers are with you!

Love,
Betsy

[traceann]

Oh Cin, I am soooo sorry this is such a nightmare for you! But, I agree with the rest - you can do this, you will get through it. All of your wonderful efforts will pay off when you see what great little people they have become because of your love, fighting spirit, acceptance and strength!!!!

BIG hugs,
Tracey
XOXOX

[mimimama]

Keep on keepin on Cindy. :pray:

We all care about you!

i am so sorry you are having to deal with all this crap right now. It just doesn't seem fair but I know you will make it through:grouphug:

You're not alone:angel:

[tigger_gal]

thanks girls it helps to have you here, even f it s just a hug.
Jake is functioning at 17 to 20 month rate, they do believe he s hgh functioning Aspergers, and significant ADHD. he will start risperdal (spellng) tonght, there are no other options except committing me. He has a physiological exam on Tuesday, and wed my case worker and physicist is coming to my home to evaluate him. I will be getting in home care to help me learn to deal with him, and respite care, where can leave for a couple of hours and have a sitter come to my house provided by the state.
Jake got up Tuesday morning and did not go to sleep until 630 am wednesday morning, he slept until 9 am and was up untl 11 pm. Today he woke up at 545 am. I am exhausted mentally and physically. just got jake down and stephanie so I am taking ths opportunity to nap. I'll keep you all posted. later wll tell you more but right now I just want to sleep.

bbb how was your vacation? remembered that cuz my aunt use to live in Hawaii (Hielo if that is spelled rght)

ok off to napping, don't mind my typos.... ((((hugs))) and many thanks.

[hdb1982]

I hope the raspiradol helps Jake. My grandmother is severe bi polar and she was in a violent rage for 3 years. Beating people with pop bottles and such. They had her on seroquil(sp) during that time and my mom convinced them to change it so they put her on raspiradol. Within 3 days she was back the grandma we knew and love. Unfortunalty, she had a bad reaction to it, horrible dizzyness(sp) and after switching/removing every other medicine to get it to go away they had no choice but to remove her from the raspiradol. It has been 3 days , the dizzyness is still there and is having some behavioral changes. It was her miracle drug and I hope for your sake, and Jakes, it is his as well.

[SharonA]

(((Hug)))

[dancemomof2]

:angel:

[Sally939]

That sounds hard. He is a child that needs someone special to love and take care of him. That person will make such a difference in is life. He is lucky to have you.

[Bessie]

Sorry you are having to deal with all of this. Sending prayers your way :pray::pray::pray:
Take care,
Laura

[Dixiefireball]

Cindy,
sorry I missed your last call. If you have the time. It seems as if Jack, the baby and exp. your freaky niece is keeping you on your tip toes right now sadly, If you get a moment give me a call. best time to call is noonish or after.

Sending you big hugs and many, many prayers.
Rhonda

[ICNJess]

Cindy,

I wish I could give you a real hug and some help with Jake and Steph. I cannot imagine being in your shoes. You are a strong woman and a very loving mother. These children will benefit from everything you have to offer them. The spot you are at right now is tough for sure, but it will get better. Jake's health issues will be dealt with and he will get the right medications and your sister's daughter will eventually be seen as the loon that she is. Everytime she makes an idiot of herself, it goes on record. So sit back with a cool head and let her dig herself a hole--because she IS doing it.

Just hang in there, you're doing a great job!!!!

:angel::angel:

[Katrina]

:grouphug: You have my prayers Cindy. :grouphug: I believe in you! So many mixed emotions as I type this that I just can't say what I want so I will have to stick with please know that we are ruting for you!