Grateful for have known Deb

[ICNJess]

I feel the loss deeply, like a deep cut to my heart, it aches and I miss her so much...I am so grateful to have known such a selfless, courageous woman. Her presence was such a strong one and I am grateful for having felt it.

[Dixiefireball]

I am to shocked! this hurts so badly to lose such a dear friend that would stand behind you know matter what when you needed her.
Debbie will truely be missed but always will be loved! grouphug

[Iris]

I was very touched by the way Debbie was always ready with a kind word, help and support, whenever needed. I always felt, even though she was dealing with a lot of health problems herself, she took the time and energy to help others whenever needed. I personally felt, that I had known her a long while, and that she was a close friend I could really count on, to give me that extra bit of strength when needed. I will always remember her, when I watch her favorite soap, and how I would try, and keep her up to date when she missed an episode, she was my soap buddy, as well as my IC sister. I will always be grateful to Debbie, for helping me feel I could live with IC, and handle it, she surely was my inspiration in dealing with a health problem, and getting on with my life. Thanks Debbie, you surely are an angel. Iris.

[ICNJess]

Deb was the epitomy of frienship and selflessness. I miss her so much, I just cannot stop crying, and my husband is so good to me, very comforting...I know Deb would not want me to be crying over her, but I keep replaying the last time we spoke over and over in my head and I just miss her so much...

[lalarainbow]

I didn't know Deb for that long.. I was amazed that someone took the time to be so caring and answer so many postings.I had chatted with her on Yahoo a few times and she was so good about answering my questions..
She certainly will be missed.
~~Pam~~

[tigger_gal]

My graditude to Debbie can never in this life time be repaid, and it will never be forgotten. She was so wonderful, happy, giving, loving..... I can go on and on about how truley wonderful Debbie was, my heart aches knowing she will never make another post :( (we need a crying graemlin) Debbie will live on im my heart as she has given me and so many other so much love, hope, joy and support. She truley was the icn anchor on support in this site, It was Debbie who responded to nearly every post with love and support, she made everyone at ease.
I will always be greatful to have known Debbie.... I love you Debbie.....
Brat


When loneliness is new
Loneliness is so new to me, Lord. I need your help in handling it.
Help me to be a little more proud. Not aloof, but a little less eager for human contact. Let me remember that other people are busy with their friends and familes. Don't let me overwhelm them with invitations.
I don't want folks to feel obligated to include me out of concern, nor do I want them to "do something" for me in return.
This is delicate area, Lord. Help me to handle it sensibly and cheerfully.
Please guide me, too, when it comes to accepting invitations. My loneliness is sometimes so painful I'd go almost anywhere at anytime with anybody. This is an effront to my self-respect.
On the other hand, I don't want to be too proud or too choosy, but please protect me against letting my desperation show and get me into situations I might regret.
Lord, help me not to talk too much when I do get out. Especially about myself, my problems or my grief.
Let me remember how I've dreaded seeing other lonley people who pinion friends to hear their tales of woe. Don't let me cheapen my sorrow by wearing it on my sleeve.
Lord, make me such good company that friends will seek me out. Help me to remember that I'm not the first person to face loneliness and I won't be the last.

[ICNJess]

Those were beautiful posts and they brought tears to my eyes. I know Deb's got her PC out in heaven and is logged on! (Look for ICAngel)...

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[vm]

I have to say, this is the first time I have seen Deb's pic. I LOVE it! What a bright, radiant, sunshiney face to match her personality on these boards. :) So cute. kissing angel

[ICNJess]

{{{{{Kim**********

You are so right about that! Her smile really reflected what she had inside--beauty and strength...

Love,
Jess

[tigger_gal]

I agree you can see the love and kindness in her eye's and face. She had a heartfull of love to share.
brat

[ICyuck]

I am so shocked and saddened to learn we've lost her. She was the kindest and most loving, wonderful person and I feel lucky to have known her even for the short time I did.

Heaven is a better place now with Deb in it.

ICY

[dyno]

I had never seen her either before. You are all right, her face matched her personality. I still can't believe this.

Jolene

[dyno]

I just wanted to share a beautiful website I found. I felt it was fitting.

Jolene


http://members.aol.com/Bonery1/AngelsAmongUs.index.html

[Iris]

The website is beautiful Jolene, thank you for posting. I really do believe there are angels among us, and I still think that Deb was one of them. I loved the posts, that remember Debbie in so many ways, I also was happy to see her face at last, and what a big smile. I can never thank her enough for all she did for me, definitely helping me to lead my life, as normal as possible with IC. One thing I know she is very happy about, is being with her beloved mother. I know she missed her very much, especially at Christmas time. Debbie will always have a piece of my heart, for making me feel so special, in the IC family, as she did with all of us. Well now we have our own special IC angel along with Diane, watching over us daily. God bless Debbie, you are so beloved by us all, rest now, and no more pain, luv ya lots, Iris. angel angel

[lisa35]

Deb was one of those incredible people that had the ability to touch the hearts of others. She was always the first one to reply to many of my posts and it was always with words of comfort.

Deb, you will be greatly missed.

Now, the rest of us will try to "hang in there"

Lisa

[readingmom]

I never got to know AuntieDeb personally, but was always uplifted by all of the hugs that she gave to anyone who needed one. I know that some on the boards were very close to her, and my heart goes out to all of you wonderful ladies as well as Debbie's family. From everything that I have read about her, she was truly a special human being. We all need to take a close look at ourselves and see if we can't try to be the kind of person Debbie was. We need more people like her in the world....Christie

[ICNJess]

Jolene,

I am in shock. Our choir sang that one year, and since Deb passed that song has been echoing in my head for 24 hours now, I find myself singing it. I was going to post the lyrics but haven't had the stamina to be near the puter for long. Thanks so much for posting that Jolene...I really needed that.

Hugs and love,
Jess

[Katrina]

I cannot find the words or even allow myself to fully accept what I know to be true....that Debbie has joined God and is now watching over us. She is here but it is different....and the change is too hard to fully realize already.

BIG BIG BIG BIG HUGS TO YOU ((((TO ALL THAT CARED AND LOVED HER)))))


I am greatful that a wonderful women is being remember here.

[liz2]

The Bible says, to everything there is a time and a season. This is the time and the season to grieve, and nothing is wrong with that.

[Teri]

I am in a complete state of shock.

I didn't know there was anything going on because I've been very sick and away from the boards....and now, to log in and hear such horrific news :( :confused: :(

I will always remember the kindness in her heart, her taking time to make sure that every single post was read and no matter how much pain she was in.....she was always giving in some way.

My heart aches for her family.

Yes, Debbie is still with us, and always will be but this is just way too much to take in in one night:(

[Kelli]

I just can't stop crying long enough to be able to see the screen! I don't know the words to express how I feel right now. Im just completely devastated. I hoped that when I got up this morning, I would scroll down and see her name that she was online and this would have all been just a very bad dream.
When Diane passed away, I remember Deb being one of the first to offer support to continue on the dreams Diane had. There was so much she wanted to do on this site and Deb, along with a few others, jumped right in to help. Not only did she provide support for the newbie Icers, but for the vets as well. During some of my worst flares, when I felt nothing could possibly take away what I was feeling, there, in my mailbox, would be kind words of encouragement from Deb. Just knowing that someone out there felt what I was feeling, or understood what I was feeling seemed to make things better. I don't know what I am going to do without her. I do know that Deb, and Diane are both up in heaven, standing beside the Lord as advocates for IC. Together, they will bring us answers to this disease. They were true angels in this life, and their love and compassion will continue to live on in the afterlife.

[Laurenn]

Debbie was such a special person that I am sure she touched all of us...............She was a gift to
the Boards. I have no doubt that there is a new
angel in Heaven tonight..........but----we will
MISS you, Deb!!
Laurenn

[ICNJess]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Sheri********************************** It was meant to be, you meeting Deb. I wish I could've gone with you two...love ya hon, you know I am here for you...

Love,
Jess grouphug kissing

[Cali girl]

I miss Debbie. She was always so caring. Even when she was not feeling well she was always there to lend a helping hand to someone else. She was kind, compassionate, funny and selfless. It seems so strange to see her posts on this board. Because it still seems like she is here. She was special to so many.

Cali

[songbird7]

"Auntie Deb", you will always have a place in my heart for your warmth, compassion even when you were sick. I will miss you. I will always remember you with love.
Songbird

[Sue]

Prayers For Guidance


O gracious and holy God,

Give us wisdom to perceive you,

intelligence to understand you,

diligence to seek you,

patience to wait for you,

eyes to see you,

a heart to meditate on you,

and a life to proclaim you,

through the power of the spirit

of Jesus Christ our Lord.


-- Saint Benedict

[felineperson3]

Beautiful prayer, Sue.
It's one we should pray every day along with the Lord's Prayer. Thanks for posting it.

[SheriG]

Jess, Thanks hun, and please know that I am always here for you too. We will have to eat Deb's share of the mint ice cream, and I think that would make her laugh. I think by know, she can finally understand just how much she was loved and needed here. I imagine her sitting, with Dianne on one side, and mom on the other, smiling down on us.She is happy now, and I am trying to be happy for her, but it still hurts....Love, Sheri

[tigger_gal]

(((((hugs))))) yes it still dose hurt, but, I too know debbie is no longer in pain and not sick any more...I am missing debbie and will forever.
brat

[Lyn40]

I have been away from these boards for over a week and was so stunned to come back on and learn this sad news. What a heartbreak! I always wanted to meet Deb as she shared her warmth in reaching out to so many of us. She was a person with a big heart and a lot to give to others. She will be deeply missed.

Lyn

[rnewman]

Hi Guys,


Ive been away for a bit.....but I couldnt help but notice this NEW board first thing when I came back!! I am speachless and just wanted to share that I think its absolutely wonderful. I think this is the perfect tribute to a dear friend.

I am grateful for that. :)
Smiles to everyone ~ :D
Rachel

[Dixiefireball]

I'm very greatful i meet Debbief she made a huge diff. in my life she helped me in so many ways she truely had a heart of gold. :)

[Pristine]

I was away from the boards for awhile and i come back to find out this sad news. For what little time i chatted with Auntie Deb, she was just so wonderful and caring. I will not forget her kind uplifting words when it seemed there was no hope, she always held a light for us in the most painful of days. She was a blessing to us all.
Pristine

[nlc57]

I am going to miss her. Debbie responded quickly to my very first post and I appreciated her so much over the following months she always had encouraging words for me and everyone else. Thank you for showing her picture. grouphug Nancy