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Kara29
11-07-2007, 10:34 AM
In order to reduce the pain I have a few more surgeries to go. I am not scared for either of them as they have both been fully explained by my medical team. One surgery is on November 29th which is the Laparatomy to reduce the abundance of adhesions. My Bladder and Uterus are stuck to my pubic bone thus when the bladder gets full it pulls on that pubic bone. While the Doctor is in there he will clean out my uterus, ovaries, and fallopian tubes, giving us about 8 months to try and conceive again. That is our last chance (as the adhesions will eventually grow back) even with a barrier put in there. Eventually a Hysterectomy will be needed but I am trying to put that off as long as I can. I believe in miracles because I was one myself so I'd like to keep my female (baby making parts) in tact for as long as I possibly can.

I got a phone call today from the PNE Specialist to discuss the surgery.
The 2nd Surgery is the very LONG awaited Pudendal Nerve Decompression. This is a very minor surgery compared to every thing I have already gone through. The Doctor will make a tiny incision in my vagina and go into where the Pudendal Nerve is located. Then they test the nerve while inside with a special machine. They test it's conductivity on both sides. After this they gently decompress around the pudendal nerve. It will take about 30-45 minutes. The they test the nerve conductivity again and sew up the incision. When I wake up I will have an epidural for 3 days for the pain. i won't need a foley catheter because I can sit up an empty my woderful Indiana Pouch at the side of the bed with a male urinal. After 3 days I will be discharged locally in NH and put on oral pain medication while healing. After a week he will clear me to go back home. This surgery will be done sometime in the Spring as I have a wedding to attend Easter weekend and I would like it done after that. My loving Grandmother is helping financially and my Mom even though she is going through her cancer treatment will also attend this trip to NH. This Doctor is excellent in his line of work and has done over 100 of these PNE Decompressions, in fact he was about to do one today after he called me. I would only go to the best!

The road continues. Hopefully the pain will be reduced enough to live with a little more activity than I do now. I cherish the good days and rest and take care of myself on the bad days.

I'd like to thank each and every one of you who have continued to be supportive and understanding of my situation along the way. Here's to better and brighter days ahead!

Thank You All! :smile tee

Kara

Claredale
11-07-2007, 10:37 AM
You are such a strong person. I pray that your journey will end soon with all these treatments. I know they are "old hat" to you, but you have my head spinning.

Hugs,
Tracey

SandyRN
11-07-2007, 10:42 AM
Kara,

You're really an inspiration. I feel silly complaining about my problems when I think about all that you've gone through and all that you're going to go through. You're very strong! I hope that these surgeries are the answer to all your problems and you can finally get on with your life and have that little one you want so much.

Hugs, Sandy

Bessie
11-07-2007, 10:54 AM
Sandy is right....you are an inspiration to all of us here :angel:
I pray that both of your surgeries are a success and in a few months you will be posting on here that you are expecting.
I believe in miracles :angel: and if anyone deserves one it is you Kara.

SharonA
11-07-2007, 11:00 AM
Kara...You are one of the strongest women I know and I am always in awe of you. The way you calmly described what you will be having done was magnificent. You are truly a role model. :kissing:

leelee88
11-07-2007, 11:48 AM
I would have to agree with everything these woman have said, you are such an amazing woman.. You have made leeps and bounds through your life and still have a possitive outlook on things.. I truly pray for you that the sugery will be successful and you will be able to concieve. You would be such a wonderful mother..Keeping you in my thought and prayers..:angel:

:pray::pray:

Babs RN
11-07-2007, 12:56 PM
Kara,
Tons of love, prayers, and blessing that this has a glorious outcome.(one being the most obvious besides pain relief :D)

Love ya girl,
Barb:hi:

ICNDonna
11-07-2007, 02:12 PM
Hopefully this will be the key to your feeling good.

Warm hugs,
Donna

Mel53H
11-07-2007, 02:23 PM
Better days ahead.:smile tee:grouphug::kiss:

dancemomof2
11-07-2007, 02:42 PM
:kiss: you yahoo messenger me and we will christmas shop while you recover and never leave our"puters" lol

Kara29
11-07-2007, 04:06 PM
Thank you Ladies for your love and blessings. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. I will bring your warm thoughts and prayers with me along the way.

:angel:

Kara

sandymarie
11-08-2007, 05:10 AM
Kara,

You are remarkable. Hang in there. Miracles happen every day. I pray we will see one for you very soon. You have a lot behind you. therefore the road you have to travel is shorter because of it. May God bless you.

JJ:pray:

waterflow
11-08-2007, 06:27 AM
Kara, hopefully these will be your last operations and you can start to feeling better again. I hope for the best out come for you. :kissing:

Judith56
11-08-2007, 05:56 PM
I hope you get the results you are seeking and that they will be the last surgeries that you need. Keeping you in my thoughts. Judith

dg2901
11-08-2007, 09:21 PM
Hopefully this will be your answer, Kara.

Wishing you well.....
Di

mimimama
11-08-2007, 11:24 PM
Kara~

I wish I lived closer to you! I'd love to get to know you better and am so inspired by you..I echo everything the ladies have already shared. you were one of the first to PM me when I joined the ICN and are always so kind, positive and encouraging.

I know God will bless you and keep you in the palm of his hand.:pray:

You are in my thoughts and prayers dear heart:kiss:

DebbieD
11-09-2007, 08:51 AM
Kara I will keep you in my Prayers. We tried to have Children but all my Surgeries on my Bladder and Long Periods just would not Let us Concieve. I had a Hysterectomy 13 Years ago. It was the Best thing I ever done. The Dr. said that we could try to adop, or intvro! But the Lord had Other Plans for Me. I was Blessed my Working at the Church with the Children. I did that for about 14 Years.

Good Luck and Prayers are Heading your way.

Hugs
DebbieD

Kara29
11-09-2007, 02:40 PM
Thank you. I wish I lived closer to some of you! It sucks just having internet friends and phone buddies. When I lived in Boston I had a few closer IC friends. It was nice to see them in person and then you really know for sure you are not alone in this.

BTW Mimi, that picture of you at the bottom of your signature is BEAUTIFUL! I love your Hair! :smile tee

Reading these posts make me feel so good about what I do.

Kara