tigger_gal
10-18-2007, 02:50 AM
I was sitting here the other night thinking we all have our breaking pont. Whether t be at home or on the boards. When you have reached that pont you need to bite your tongue and just walk away.
Building lies on top of lies will eventually get you in the end and can become quite costly.
Its truly amazing that some one can be sweet as pie to your face, and then be a vindictiveness, back stabbing, conniving person. The stress and emotional pain you are put thru makes you wonder if it s worth it. Of course it is for my kids. However, all the complaining that goes with it from anybody else is the real issue.
I have nearly bit my tongue clean off during all this. My patience are thin, even tho everyone tells me they wouldn't have my life for nothing. Nor do they know how I do it. My dad tells me I have the patience of St Jude. (or Judis, don't know, I don't go to church)
I am forced to allow the bio mother to attend dr appointments. That s not right. They do not have there children for a reason. Anywho, it ended up, with the baby gong for her 2 month check up, she has exezma and has to have special soap and lotion. She had an eyelash in her eye. She went and told my mom the dr said that she had a hair n her eye that caused an infection (not) and that I don't keep her clean. Why is one forced to take the bio, when they are gong to come out and twist what was said to fit there own needs.
On the up side, I have 2 great kids, jake is very high functioning he will be getting tested soon at the school district. He dose have some mental health issues, and I need to learn how to help him when he is at home.
I had my own concerns about taking the new one on and they have over exceeded the pain I thought I was gong to endure. I sometimes wish I said no. They took the termination off the table before if got transfered to the other county, but the case worker s gong to ask for t to be put back on. The final call will be the judges. only one can hope they would do the right thing for the child.
anywho... the point is, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
Building lies on top of lies will eventually get you in the end and can become quite costly.
Its truly amazing that some one can be sweet as pie to your face, and then be a vindictiveness, back stabbing, conniving person. The stress and emotional pain you are put thru makes you wonder if it s worth it. Of course it is for my kids. However, all the complaining that goes with it from anybody else is the real issue.
I have nearly bit my tongue clean off during all this. My patience are thin, even tho everyone tells me they wouldn't have my life for nothing. Nor do they know how I do it. My dad tells me I have the patience of St Jude. (or Judis, don't know, I don't go to church)
I am forced to allow the bio mother to attend dr appointments. That s not right. They do not have there children for a reason. Anywho, it ended up, with the baby gong for her 2 month check up, she has exezma and has to have special soap and lotion. She had an eyelash in her eye. She went and told my mom the dr said that she had a hair n her eye that caused an infection (not) and that I don't keep her clean. Why is one forced to take the bio, when they are gong to come out and twist what was said to fit there own needs.
On the up side, I have 2 great kids, jake is very high functioning he will be getting tested soon at the school district. He dose have some mental health issues, and I need to learn how to help him when he is at home.
I had my own concerns about taking the new one on and they have over exceeded the pain I thought I was gong to endure. I sometimes wish I said no. They took the termination off the table before if got transfered to the other county, but the case worker s gong to ask for t to be put back on. The final call will be the judges. only one can hope they would do the right thing for the child.
anywho... the point is, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.