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lizzyrae77
07-08-2007, 10:14 PM
Hello everyone,
I was diagnosed with IC in December 2005. I had gone through years of pelvic pain starting when I was 16. I was told I had overactive ovaries and thought the pain was something I had to deal with. I did this for quite a few years, trying to make it through high school and then college. While in college the pain became worse and I decided to finally do something about it. At first I was diagnosed with kidney stones and had my first cysto in April 2000. All the urologist found was "sludge" (still not sure what it was) and sent me on my way. Three weeks later I end up in surgery with appendictis. Since the surgeries were so close together, they decided to do an exploratory surgery, not finding anything else but leaving me in more pain then before and a huge incision. I thought this was just something I had to deal with again and tried to go on with life as usual. By this time I had finished college and started working. When the pain was getting worse again, my PCP decided to send me to a gynecologist. This led to my first lap and diagonsis of endo in 2001. So I was told that the surgery took care of everything and I should be fine for there on out. Well that lasted less then a month. Then it was another round of possible kidney stones and another cysto with only "sludge" again. At this point I started looking for a specialist. I live in a rural area so all my options meant traveling a ways. I was quite fortunate and found a wonderful doctor and only have to travel 2 hours. I had my second lap and started with pain management treatments. But then about 3 years ago, I kept thinking I had an UTI. Went to my primary and all my cultures always came up negative. When I went back to my gyn specialist and told him what was going on he told me he thought I may have IC. At this point I was devasted thinking, great another disease to deal with. I had the potassium test done a couple of weeks later which confirmed the diagnosis. So I started on the diet, eliminating my life-saving caffeine and so many other things, started taking elmiron and learned to self-cath for instillations of lidocaine and heparin.

I did well for quite a while, but recently had a few rounds of bad flares. At this point I am just frustrated because I know these are probably self-inflicted. I work the midnight shift at a very stressful job and have trouble sleeping during the days. I usually don't have problems with frequency, but my body can't adjust to the fact that daytime is supposed to be my nighttime and I don't need to be in the bathroom every hour. I also have got stuck working way too much overtime and have exhausted myself. And I have had to have a few mochas to keep me awake. So yes my flares are self inflicted but didn't know what else to do.

I dealt with this all very well and have a good support system. I'm 29 years old and single but have a great mother who will still come and take care of me!! But still no one seems to understand what it is like to deal with a flare. Last night I sat at work almost in tears and my co-workers just stare at me. I spent a lot of time reading other people's post and thought I have finally found others that understand.

Right now I am just hoping this flare ends soon. I am doing instillations 3 times a week now and taking everytime I eat anything. Still taking the Elmiron too, it did seem to help to start out with but not sure anymore.

Thanks for giving a place for me to tell my story and find people that understand!!!!!!

mimimama
07-09-2007, 12:40 AM
So sorry you are flaring! You have been thru alot for your age. I am glad you wrote us:)

I am so glad you have your momma to come care for you..mommas seem to know how to make it all better.

I want you to know that everyone here cares about what you are going thru. You're never alone~only a thread away from a group hug and encouraging word!:angel:

I know what you mean about "self-inflicted" flares. I sometimes wonder if I didn't somehoe cause my IC by eating the wrong foods, drinking way too much coffee and coca-cola and taking alot of tylenol/advil everyday just to function like everyone else. sigh..who knows??

hugs~

lizzyrae77
07-11-2007, 06:58 PM
Thank you for your kind words and support. Still not feeling all that great but hopefully it will be over with soon. I spent the last two days in bed!!!! I felt like such a bum but hoping the sleep will help. I guess it is back to the doctor again to see if there are more options for me

leelee88
07-12-2007, 06:41 AM
Please never feel alone.. Thats what we are here for.. Anytime you need to talk you can post or you can PM me...((((hugs))))

Ronda

kk928
07-12-2007, 02:31 PM
We are here for you! We totally understand the loneliness of this IC. But, thankfully, this network helps pull me through and should help you feel connected to all of us out there that know exactly how you are feeling both physically and emotionally. Try snuggling up w/ a heating pad and a nice cup of Chamomile tea and feel better soon! --Kathy

GriffsMommy
07-12-2007, 02:58 PM
:welcome: I'm so happy you found our site. It's so nice to have a place where people know what you are going through. You never have to feel alone when you have support just a couple of mouse clicks away. Hope your flare ends for you soon :grouphug:

Spice
07-13-2007, 07:03 AM
Hi there,
I've never posted here before. I'm very thankful for this site and for all of you. It's so nice to have people to talk to that understand. I was 27 when diagnosed with IC in Dec of 06, but have had the symptoms for almost 2 years. I'm having a terrible, terrible time accepting it. I feel so stupid because I know I have it and it's not going away but everyday I fight it so hard in my head. I miss who I used to be... Every picture of me I look at I categorize as before I had IC and after. I dont' know why I do that. I know that will only make me more miserable but I don't know how to stop.. I guess my question is, does anyone have any tips/advice on how to come to terms with this a little easier? I've been on Elmiron since March of '07 but haven't noticed a big difference. I would appreciate any input you guys may have on accepting this diagnosis.. Thanks for listening....

Ginger

kk928
07-13-2007, 07:28 AM
Ginger, my best suggestion is one that my doctor gave me. He told me to go for counseling. Additionally, he said his patients who go for some therapy do better physically and emotionally. I agree it is hard to come to terms with the effects of IC, but talking to someone has helped me and may help you. Take Care! --Kathy