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dancemomof2
04-11-2007, 10:44 AM
Yesterday, I took Logan to the hospital for her kidney test. As someo f you know she was born with kidney and heart problems. It started bad and went so down hill.

We left home at 545 for the 2 hour trip there. 8AM we started in the lab with tons of u/a's and labs that were all fasting. I ask the lab to have someone come and put a Hep lockin as her tests required an IV and to avoid all the sticks with 1 pok, ok the lab tech missed the first vein and had to stick her again and the kid almost passed out. The lab tech assured me that the test would not need and IV ok whatever. We head to nuclear med for the MAG 3 renal scan and guess what, here they come to insert and and IV. She just about flipped out and then procedes to throw up on the lady inserting the IV. This lady looks at me and ask "Didn't you prepare her for this?" Well yes until your lab assured her differently. She then goes on to explain that they require a cath for this now and the kid was a complete nervous wreck and stands up to go to the waiting area and almost passed out on me good thing mom's have good reflexes. We go to the waiting area and this older RN comes to get us to cath her and starts prolonging this by trying to explain cathing to her like she was 21, using medical terms way above her head. I have to look at this woman and get blunt and interupt her and tell Logan that she was gonna insert a rubber straw and drain pee for the 45 mintues test. She tells Logan to frog leg it and the kid is so tense and almost passes out again because she was so worked up. another glare to this lady and she finally gets the hint to get with it. She cleans her off and inserts the cath and then the kid did pass out, smelling salts in hand they all came running. The tech finally got the rude nurse out of there and the kid calmed down and got the test done. We then had to have a kidney U/S.

By the time we got to the Dr and seen and her fed at 130PM she was exhausted. Her bad kidney is do about 25% of the work it should be and her good one is picking up the slack. The bad one is very atrophic but not enough to warrant any surgical intervention as of now. Her BP has been elevated the past 3 months and we are monitoring that for a few more weeks at home where she is comfy to see if the BP meds are needed again.

By the time all this was over and I finally got home, I wanted to rip everyone a new butt for her trauma and my bladder out from the flare.

Thanks for listening!!!!!!!!

LeeAnn
04-11-2007, 10:54 AM
I'm so sorry you and your daughter had to go through this!! It sounds like a nightmare, poor kid. You sound like a good mom and she is lucky to have you. I hope she (and you) get to feeling better real soon. Much love! L

littlemyrn
04-11-2007, 10:56 AM
I am so sorry you and your girl had to go through all of that. My daughter who is 19 now had to have so many test when she was younger, kidney test like the one you mentioned. She has a seizure disorder and was always wetting herself. Luckily that worked itself out, but as a mom I would sit there and cry because my baby was being hurt, I knew that she had to have these test, but it didn't make it any easier.

SharonA
04-11-2007, 11:11 AM
Leslie...Please give Logan a (((hug))) from me. I am so sorry she was treated so badly. You, my dear are one great mom. Here comes a (((hug))) for you, also.

patricia1
04-11-2007, 11:39 AM
When someone treats our children bad we want to rip hair, throw punches and then some. I am so sorry she was treated so bad. I hope she is not so frightened of the hospital now. (((((((((((logan))))))))))))))

Babs RN
04-11-2007, 11:52 AM
Leslie,
You know my feelings on yesterday!! I am just glad she is better!

Hugs,
Barb:smile tee

ICNDonna
04-11-2007, 12:09 PM
If she has to have tests in the future, I suggest you talk to your doctor about giving her a relaxant prior to all the testing.

Sending gentle hugs,
Donna

dancemomof2
04-11-2007, 12:24 PM
Thanks, everyone

Donna, I did ask for some sedation or relaxant then once she had calmed down to procede. They told me NO! They were behind schedule already.

Patricia, Thanks, I can't imagine having to have this test again.

Sarojini
04-11-2007, 12:27 PM
:grouphug:

This sounds horrible! I'm sorry it happened. I bet you are glad it is all over now!!!

**Angie**
04-11-2007, 12:29 PM
I'm with Donna--she needs something to make the day go smoother. The tests she went thru are not fun at any age but so hard when your a child. You need something too :) us moms can not stand to watch our babies suffer.

Janie Miranda
04-11-2007, 02:05 PM
Oh My. I can't even bear to think of that being done to my little girl. I think we would both be passing out. What dreadful treatment from that nurse.

RAS6
04-11-2007, 03:18 PM
I am so sorry to hear she had to go through that! As a mom myself I would rather go through anything than having to see my kids in pain. I hope she feels better today and won't have to deal with insensitive people like that again! Nurses should know better when they are dealing with kids. Even if they don't gave the best bed side manner, children usually bring out a tender side in people who are supposed to be healers!

leelee88
04-11-2007, 03:50 PM
OMG Leslie... I am so sorry..
Poor child, I bet is was so hard on both of you... ((((((((((hugs)))))))))

dg2901
04-11-2007, 04:05 PM
Hope your daughter feels better soon!

Diana

GriffsMommy
04-11-2007, 04:08 PM
OMG Leslie,
I remember how upset I got when they had to stitch up Griffin's head when he busted his head open and that was over much faster than what you had to go through. I think I would have kicked or punched one of those nurses with all of those problems. I hope Logan's feeling better now, I love that name, my oldest step son's name is Logan

Berkshire Road
04-12-2007, 04:23 AM
I'm sorry the two of you had to go through that, and I hope your daughter is all right.

Two years ago when my Susannah had to have a series of hip surgeries, she would get hysterical each time they came to put in the IV. I kept asking for a light sedative and they kept saying it "wasn't protocol." Finally I started slipping the kid a half a xanax that I had already, before we left the house. By the time we got there, she really didn't care what they did to her. :)

Oh, and the kicker was, twice they made her pee in a cup to do a pregnancy test -- she was ten years old and not menstruating, but bc. she was so tall and muscular looking, the nurses just did not believe either of us that she had not started her periods. I really appreciated being called a liar, naturally... :rolleyes:

Anyway it did get her over the hump, and when she had to have bloodwork done to diagnose her mono, she was pretty calm about the needle.

I hope Logan is feeling better. It must have been hell for you both.

ICLori
04-12-2007, 05:42 AM
I'm so sorry they treated her so badly like that! That was totally inexcusable. They should have waited, I don't care how behind they were! When they saw she was upset, they should have given her a tranquilizer to help her and then talked to her for awhile to help calm her, and then proceeded only if she was okay with everything.

They were so insensitive I can't believe it!

I hope so much your daughter will be okay. I hope her kidney recovers. I know young ones have such an incredible capacity for healing, and the kidneys are one of the best organs around for healing up, too, so I am hoping so much that everything will be okay.

Blessings,
Lori

dancemomof2
04-12-2007, 06:19 AM
Lori thanks so much. Here kidneys have been this way sinmce birth. They will never recover and sooner or later they feel she will lose the righ kidney. As far as removing it depends on how much renin it produces and how that effects the blood pressure. If the BP stays down they will leave it in there, if her BP increases it will have to be removed. Right now her BP is up some for her age and we are monitoring it at home until August to see if it warrants medication. She was on BP meds from birth until 4 and it has been stable until recently.

I appreciate everyone here, I thought maybe I was some psycho mom when all this happened.

humpieumpumkin
04-12-2007, 06:25 AM
I am so sorry your daughter had to endure that awful testing. Thank God she has a mom like you to help her through the difficult time. Thinking of you....
Erika

traceann
04-12-2007, 08:19 AM
Oh geesh Leslie I just saw this! That poor kid, nothing like a "great time" - not! - at the hospital. Ugh. I certainly hope that the next time around they take into consideration she's just a kid! ;) How's mom holding up after that day from heck???

XOXO

Claredale
04-12-2007, 10:46 AM
Oh Leslie, I am sorry to hear about what you and your daughter had to go through.

I definitely understand why you wanted to "rip" that nurse a new one! I hope that your daughter and you are doing better today!

Hugs!
T83

Hanneke
04-15-2007, 10:14 PM
Your poor little princess, I had the same sort ot torture when I was little, I am 33 and still in pain I hope your little one can be fixed up real quick.

To all nurses and doctors who say this won't really hurt lie down and let me do it to you first!