Help. Paniced!!

[waterflow]

I made a mistake and told someone about the male nurse thing. Now they said sometime they are going over to talk to him about it. I told them not to but they won’t listen to me. Now do I call and warn them or just let it ride out and hope for the best? They know I will never get the nerve up to ask or hint to him but I don’t want them going and making me look desperate. Ugh…..

[leelee88]

Waterflow,
Thats a tough one, but look at it like this....If its meant to be it will happen, if not then it was just not meant to be.. Dont be scared and worry, thats what lifes about is taking some chances, If you dont take this chance you just might be missing out on something...

Life is to short, We all need to live like there is no tomorrow:smile tee
((((hugs)))))

[waterflow]

You're right Ronda. I will just let things ride and what happens happens. I'm just worried he will think I'm a loonie or it will chase him away thinking I'm desperate. Would be helpful if I had some experiences in this department. Kind of hard to finally learn what to do at the old age of 42. :rolleyes:

[SandyRN]

It sounds like he's a nice guy and no matter how he takes it, I'm sure he'll be kind and diplomatic! It's flattering to know someone is interested in you and I'm sure he won't think you're desperate. I've known lots of male nurses and they're usually GREAT guys...many of them quite nice to look at too! :woohoo: :)

[Trishann]

Waterflow, I am at lost at this conversation but I think everything will turn out fine. I don't think this will really be a big issue, hang in there and hope the best.

Hugs, Trish

[waterflow]

Hi Trishann, :hi: I told someone about the male nurse thing which I told about in another post. This person I told said they are going to talk to him about it sometime even after I told them not to. That's why I am sort of paniced over it. Sorry, I do post some confusing things. :bonk:

Sandy, he does seem like a nice guy and is good looking too which is why I find it so hard to believe it if he is interested. Have decided not to worry about it. If it is suppose to be it will happen. he will have to take me the way I am (burnt food and gray hair :) ) and not judge me by other people.

Have noticed I sure do worry a lot about things don't I? Need to work at stop doing that before I end up :loco: :loco: in the belfry. :bonk: :bonk:

[Bessie]

Well at least maybe you will know something one way or the other.
I hope it all works out for you :smile tee

You just never know.....:)

[ICLori]

Waterflow, I worry about everything too, LOL, I think we must have been separated at birth, LOL!

Yeah, this is kind of scary, but you know - I'll bet all they are going to do is go up to him, talk for awhile, then maybe ask, "have you noticed that patient coming in? She has pretty hair/eyes/legs (whatever they pick to focus on) doesn't she? What do you think?" I'll bet you anything that is what they will do. Nothing more scary than that! Because you see if they do that, they can look in his face and see his reaction. They can tell just by that whether or not he is interested in pursuing a relationship with you!

Blessings, keeping my fingers crossed for you,
Lori

[ihurttoo]

Waterflow, I worry about everything too, LOL, I think we must have been separated at birth, LOL!

Yeah, this is kind of scary, but you know - I'll bet all they are going to do is go up to him, talk for awhile, then maybe ask, "have you noticed that patient coming in? She has pretty hair/eyes/legs (whatever they pick to focus on) doesn't she? What do you think?" I'll bet you anything that is what they will do. Nothing more scary than that! Because you see if they do that, they can look in his face and see his reaction. They can tell just by that whether or not he is interested in pursuing a relationship with you!

Blessings, keeping my fingers crossed for you,
Lori
I agree. I bet they will do something like that too. I think it is gonna be good for you. At least you wont have to wonder anymore!! :)

[traceann]

Oh I know how nerve-wracking it can be, but just think if this didn't happen, you may miss out on a great guy! You never know til you give it a shot! And if not, oh well. When I was dumped by my first fiance, my coworker and I used to hit all the restaurants in town for lunch, a different one every day. Well, there was this really cute guy we'd see all the time, in his dapper business suit, and I was definitely crushing, lol. So, my girlfriend dared me to leave my business card on the window of his vehicle - and I did it! Now looking back, he probably either thought I hit his vehicle or wanted to sell him insurance - I was a customer service rep for an insurance agency! LMAO!! I never did hear from him, but I am glad I put myself out there, there was always the 50/50 chance!!! LMAO!

And meeting my husband was the same way - I never thought he'd look twice at me, and then I found out through my best friend who is now married to his brother, that he was liking me too!!!! I'd have never known it if I hadn't taken the plunge - as come to find out he's really shy too, so he wouldn't have said diddly to me about it and we'd probably not be married now...lol.

Oh and one more thing - I was whining to my husband that it's too much pressure to deal with the summer time girls that hang out at the harbor in their little bikinis etc, it's stressful to me knowing he's there to see it all, lol Yes, I guess it's the green-eyed monster, and it gets greener when you are feeling particularly poorly about yourself as I am right now. But he said to me, it's not all about looks dear, a girl could be super-model extrodinaire, but if she doesn't have any personality, her looks don't matter one bit. He said he realizes that stuff doesn't last forever - it's personality and how much they like to be around you that does!!! And personally, I think you have a wicked great sense of humor and a fabulous personality! The grays can be covered (like I do) but your personality can't! Let it shine chickie!!! :) If he opts to not partake of your charms, his loss!!!!!! Then you proudly say "NEXT!"

;)

[waterflow]

Wow, thanks Tracey. That was a kick I needed in the pants for my self esteem. :) I think your husband knows what great of a wife he has and he is not about to let some teenie bopper come along and ruin it. Not to sure I could deal with him looking at them but.....green eyed monsters probably roam the beaches every where.
That's a funny story about leaving your insurance card on the guys window :lmao: but sure did take nerve to do it.
I guess I can stop worrying over it. Maybe having someone else mention it is really the way to go. :bow:
You sure have a good sense of humor tracey. :smile tee Ever thought of going on the road and doing stand up shows?

[traceann]

LOL, I always said that if I ever had to perform on stage I need to take my own nurse with me to keep me happy on tranquilizers, lol. Terrible stage fright! LMAO

Yeah, it's not easy to know that the dock cuties are passing by, and I know all men look, even if they don't admit it, lol. I really wish it was something I could get over myself, but again I think it comes back to how we all view ourselves, I haven't been happy in a bathing suit since I was about 13-14. Then some evil boys come along, one wrong remark and a girl is scarred for life - my incident was "Thunder Thighs" and at the time I only weighed 125!! I realize they were warped and it made no sense, but it sure burned into my brain.... So, I guess the happier I am with myself, the less I care about those Beach Bunnies! LMAO! Ok, now, need to get happy!! ;) Well, shoot I told him if he didn't realize what he had, I'd have to hurt him badly... I think it was threat of eye-removal with a spork...

I think having a friend do the dirty work is the best way to go - saves you both ways. If they are stupid enough to not be interested, it's no skin off your nose and if they are, great!! LOL Much easier sometimes to use a mediator, lol.