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Kara29
12-13-2006, 11:24 AM
After being turned away by several doctors last week and just about losing all hope in moving foward, on Tuesday I met with a Doctor in Rochester, NY where I am currently staying with my parents. This doctor seems to want to help in finding some pain relief and in the long run, what actually is causing it. It's quite complex at this point so I will be posting here for awhile. This is going to be a very long road. I am weak and discouraged and I have lost a lot of faith and trust in the medical field. I am off of all of my medication with the exception of Inderol for a rapid heartbeat and Ambien for sleep. I have not slept in 3 weeks now and I am barely eating. This is mainly due to the extreme depression and anxiety I am facing. I have always searched for answers and I've been willing to try everything out there to try and get myself some sort of life back. It's been since 1999 that I have put up this fight. A few weeks ago all of my current medictions began agitating my phantom pain which I am not even sure is phantom anymore. I had to go off of everything.

I am going to be going through several nerve blocks over the next few months. This doctor is going with the only thing that has helped me, which is where I left off last. I was heading toward denervation and may still be headed there. He wants to make sure he gets the correct nerve and in order to do that a series of blocks needs to be done.

He feels that I have some nerve damage. He gave me a list of things that could possibly be wrong with me and a list of how he would go about treating them. He'd like to get my pain down 30-60%.

As far as Interstitial Cystitis goes....I've done all I could do to treat that. So he is going to look at what else is going on to be causing this urethral urgency to continue. The possibilites upon initial interview and examination with him are as follows. Urethral Nerve Damage, Pudendal Nerve Entrapment, Ahesion Disease, Endometriosis, Vulvar Vestibulitis and so much more...with the possibility of never finding the answer but to just treat the pain.

He is thinking after the nerve block series that Denervation may need to be done or Pudendal Nerve Release. Since I am so sensitive to medications he is not pushing me to go back through them. He knows how hard I've tried.

He literally wrote the book on Chronic Pelvic Pain and How to treat it. He is internationally known and the most difficult cases from all over the world end up in his hands. This is the city where I was born so it's strange that he ended up here but I am grateful. I just need to gain back some trust. The urethral area is considered to be part of the pelvis even though it has been removed, there can still be problems. I can not sit or stand. I can lay down but it's vitually impossible to find a comfortable position and then when I do move the pain is relentless. The depression, anxiety, and PTSD are taking me down. Since I can't tolerate any medication, I can't treat the depression or anxiety but just to cotinue to see my therapist.

My mom has been cooking for me and feeding me. I go back to stay with my Husband on Friday. I miss him but also need my family right now. Thank God we only live an hour from them. My Grandmother is taking me back on Friday. We will be back here for Christmas. Then I will be back for the first nerve block which has not been scheduled yet.

Thank You All for your continued love and support!

Kara

dancemomof2
12-13-2006, 11:52 AM
Hugs Kara. Hopefully this is the last step in this long struggle with pain. Seems like this guys has his ducks in a row and has you on the road to success again.

leelee88
12-13-2006, 12:05 PM
Hello Kara,
It sure sounds like this dr knows what hes doing, and I think its a blessing he has ended up close to your hometown, so you do not have to travel to far to see him..
I hope you can get some sort of relief soon, I know pain can wear us down physically and mentally, it takes control of are motions and thoughts, its not something I would not wish on anyone.
I wont you to know, I am praying for you with all my heart and soul asking the Lord to give you some relief, I can tell you are such a wonderful, caring person and if anyone deserves to be painfree it is you... Please keep us informed , when you can.. GOD BLESS YOU:angel:

Babs RN
12-13-2006, 12:40 PM
Hugs and prayers. Hopefully this guy can help so you can live your life again.

Hugs,
Barb:smile tee

waterflow
12-13-2006, 01:58 PM
It sounds like this doctor is willing to go the distance with you. I'm so glad you found him and close to your parents house is a plus too. I wish you would get to feeling better and not so down but maybe once new doctor starts the treatments things will get better for you. I sure am hoping. :pray: :pray:

Katrina
12-13-2006, 02:30 PM
:grouphug: Thanks for letting us know Kara! Hopefully this will be the mirracle you need! You always have my prayers!!!! My husband and family are a big sourse of my strength so I hope that you gain much strength from your time with your family!

ihurttoo
12-13-2006, 02:49 PM
Dear Kara,

I am so happy to see you back on the board, posting again, even if it is just a little at a time, as you can. You have been missed! My pm box has bee filled up every day with people asking about you!

As you know, I am thrilled that this new Dr. has accepted your case and believes he can help you. I know how hard it is to keep the hope alive, and am glad that you have found a Dr. to extend some again. I hope and pray that he will find the cause of your pain and/or be able to treat it and give you some much needed relief.

Try and rest all you can and get your strength up so your body will be in the best shape possible to begin the treatments!

Love and hugs,
Amy

aprilmae
12-13-2006, 02:57 PM
Kara,

So glad you are making progress with a doctor. I will continue to pray for you and this doctor as you start your journey with him towards getting better. So nice to hear from you!!

April

Silverfern
12-13-2006, 03:30 PM
:kissing: Kara!

I've got all my fingers and toes crossed that you're now heading down the right path to getting your life back!

Hugs

Mel53H
12-13-2006, 03:36 PM
:woohoo: Thank God there is someone out there that is willing to help you. I pray that he is able to take your pain away.:pray:

Mel

massagedoula
12-13-2006, 04:43 PM
I am hoping that the new year sees you pain free.:angel:

blondie45
12-14-2006, 03:26 AM
I cannot imagine being in the constant pain you are in. I go totally nuts when I am in extreme pain even for a little while. I am sooooo praying for you to find relief from your pain and very soon.:pray:

Bessie
12-14-2006, 04:17 AM
It is so great to hear from you again. I am praying for you and I am so glad that you found this doctor. He sounds like he is very compassionate, understanding, and truly wants to help you. I am also so thankful that you have such a wonderful husband and family to be with you. What an awesome blessing in your life. Hang in there.......things are going to get better. You inspire all of us!!!
octoberfarm

sandramac
12-14-2006, 03:51 PM
:smile tee I just spoke with Kara not long ago, she is such a amazing person ! I love her dearly, I just continue to pray that this Dr can help her ! Talk to u soon Kara! Love Sandra& Family:cat: :cat: :cat:

Kara29
12-18-2006, 08:50 AM
It's been a week and the Radiologist was supposed to call me to set up my nerve block in a series of 6 of them but they have not called yet. Katrina I'm sorry I have not been able to check in with you. It's very difficult for me to even post this. I am still not sleeping and eating poorly.

I pray that you all have a wonderful Holiday Season. All I want for Christmas is to get some sleep and pain relief and to have a date for my first nerve block.

I have a feeling this is going to go all winter long. I wish I could sit down but it's impossible due to the nerve damage. This makes going to visit family for the Holidays impossible.

I did get my medical ID bracelet!

Kara

Katrina
12-18-2006, 10:08 AM
:grouphug:

ICLori
12-18-2006, 11:53 AM
Kara, I hope so much the doctor calls you soon to set up the appointments, and I wish more than anything for a pain-free new year for you.

Blessings,
Lori

waterflow
12-18-2006, 02:11 PM
:grouphug: :kissing:

rachann
12-18-2006, 02:54 PM
Kara, you already know what an amazing person I think you are. We will all be praying that you get relief very soon. We would all give you our strength if we could. I hope you get a nerve block in time for Christmas! Best wishes to you for happy holidays. :smile tee Rachel