Finally did it

[waterflow]

I had it out with a person whom I had been helping for a long time. Most of the time they treated me like scum and I took. I cared and worried. Well, I had finally had enough. Can't tell the whole story but I"m glad I finally did it. They did not care about me at all. They proved it by what they said to me. So, I'm hoping now I can get my mind back :( (they were most of my problem) and I will get back to feeling like my normal self again. I just can not believe how stupid I have been. It's happened over and over and over. I am no longer taking anything from anyone.

[Claredale]

I feel that way with my doctor's assistant. I have probably have had IC since she was in diapers and she talks to me like I am just am just a drama queen! If I leave more than 2 messages (believe me I am in tears because of the pain). She will call me and say I got your messages, what exactly can we do for you. The doctor is busy with other patients. Just to let you know the doctor himself has asked me to call him when I am in a crisis and he will try to fit me in. When I go see him on the 17th, I am going to make sure that his asst is there and in a nice way make her realize that IC is not an easy disease to live with and I wouldn't be calling if I didn't need help!!!

[mum43]

Good for you !!
No-one should have to put up any thing like that.
I am so glad you sorted them out hun!!
Now you can think of you and not worry about anyone else ok.

[ICLori]

Good for you! It's very affirming to be able to stand up and say, "I won't be abused." Hopefully you will feel much less sad now!

Blessings,
Lori

[waterflow]

I know what you are going through Tracey with the receptionist. THere was one at my doc's office who said I was calling to much and I heard her tell him to tell me to stop calling but he said nothing. She wasn't there very long.

I'm going through the guilty feeling now. Knew I would but hoping it won't last long. I still do not understand people but guess that is the way some are.