Need Support - Husband Moved Out

[littlemyrn]

Hey guys, as I have stated on my previous thread, I am in the middle of a divorce. This morning he left and will not be back to live. I am so sad. The thing is we both still care about each other and we have been trying for 5 years to make this work, but we couldn't. I feel such a loss. We have a huge walk in closet and now his side is empty. (almost) There are a few things left he couldn't get last night and will move the rest out next weekend. He is a CPA and is extremely busy and I think it has made it harder because he hasn't had much time to leave.

Please keep me and the kids in your prayers and him also. We all are going to need it. I think I will start counseling pretty soon. Medical bills are just so high right now with IC that I have to see what I can afford once the monthly bills are paid. I did go ahead and get a referral from my insurance co. and my daughter is already seeing someone (totally out of pocket he is not on our insurance).

I know I can always count on you.

[emilyrose197377]

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[Babs RN]

Tons of hugs and prayers headed your way.

Hugs,
Barb :kissing: :grouphug:

[Baba Yaga]

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[Bianchi]

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Bianchi

[Katrina]

:pray::grouphug::grouphug::pray:Wish I could help!:grouphug:

[Shehorst]

I'm sorry to hear of your situation. It is hard to see the big picture when you have two things to deal with - plus the kids. I will pray for your family - I wish I could do more.

Sherry
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[liznazz]

I am sorry to hear about your divorce. I wanted to share with you that my husband walked out on me 5 months after I was diagnosed--because in the interim, he had found a girlfriend who could have sex ALL the time, as opposed to me--who couldn't. We were married 20 yrs. and I have 2 sons. I was devastated!! It is coming up to my 1 yr. anniv. of the divorce, and I have to say, yes--it was difficult for the first few months, and I still have some "emotional" attachment, but my life has become much calmer, and less stressful for my bladder. It feels so much better without thinking about the womanizing and the drinking. I still have my sons, and don't have to worry about who he's with or where he is at nights. My bladder has become much easier to deal with and I am experiencing very little discomfort. IT is difficult, but know that time does heal the wounds. I will say a prayer for you. liz

[ICNDonna]

I think the break-up of a marriage is one of the most difficult things there is. It will get easier as time goes on --- hang in there.

Sending gentle hugs,
Donna

[creatingkarma]

I'm sorry to hear that you two couldn't make this work, especially since you both still care about each other. I will pray for all of you.

[Cohen3]

I am sorry that you are going through this...... My Husband walked out on our son & I on Christmas Day... Jerk.... It is hard when there are children involved but we do somehow manage, you will find a strength within that you properly never knew you had. Reach out to others for help if you can & take care of yourself. We are here for you if you need a shoulder too lean on. As I said I know just what you are going through.
Stay strong
Andrea :grouphug:

[ChrissySunshine]

Hi Littlemyrn, Sorry you have to go through this. I am also going through a breakup, and it's not easy, especially being so sick and all! If you ever want to chat, PM me anytime! You and your kids will be in my prayers!

[SharonA]

I am so sorry. Divorce is terrible...even if you want it. My one piece of advice...start taking up the closet space with your stuff. It won't take the pain away, but you won't be faced with an empty side every time you go into your closet.

Hugs...

[work it]

Oh dear, I am sorry, it has to be so hard since you both still care about one another. You will be in my prayers,