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Camillamoo
01-29-2006, 05:46 AM
Hi All, I am from Sydney Australia, and I hardly know where to start. Its been a fourn month nightmare to be honest.

About four months ago, I awoke in the night with the most unbelieveable bladder pain. It was like nothing I had ever felt and i could not seem to empty my bladder. By morning the pain had slightly eased but it was still horrid and went to see my doctor. The day before i have eaten a ham sandwich and had put heaps of hot english mustard (which has made my bladder feel a bit funny before but nothing like this). The doctor told me it was impossible for the mustard to do this.

She put my on antibiotics and did a sample - nothing showed up. After about two weeks with the pain still there but a little less, I went to have an ultrasound, where I was shown to have urinary retention. There was 300mls in my bladder that would not empty. Exactly how i had felt, so off I had to fogo to get catherised. This fixed the pain. Within two hours i felt nearly normal again, and good.


About two weeks later, that feeling started to sneak back. hard to describe just irritation and fuuny feeling in the blaadder. I went straight to the hospital fter a few says and catherised again - once more urinary retention diagnosed. I had a cyctoscopy, which showed nothing Theuroligist said to see a neurologist to rule out brain related retention. It happened again, and the emergency department said, yes ultrasound machine saying retention, but clinically bladder not full by physical examination.

I went to a gyno, an excellent professor, who looked at all the reports and knew my hyistory( inverted uterus with large fibroid te size of a 14week pregnacy, was putting pressure on urethra causing retentiona nd pain). He said I needed a hysterectomy or myomectomy. This seemed an answer to this nightmare , and at least a diagnosis. After much advise from freinds, I opted for the hysterectomy never to have to go through this again. I have three small children and , thats it. My husband had a vasectomy a few years back, so I thought I ould feel ok about this emotionally - as long as the pain went.

This was all the week before Christmas. I had the hysterectomy, lapracsopically and al went well on the whole. The problem is i still have this pain and Im beside myself. Doctor says I need to heal after surgery but my gut instinct tells me I have healed and this pain is the same as before. Pelvic pain is so hard to describe!Somedays its hardly there, and others it is so intense it seems to have a headache that accopmanies it. The headache is hehind my eye Im going back to the professor this week. I am so angry at myself If i have let this happen to me. I feel so sad a teary and blame myself. I have tried to tell myself i could not have IC. The cycoscopy did not show it, and my bladder can fill to over 300ml ive been measureing. But I tried mustard the other day. just a little and Ifelt bad the next day. I had to test it - never again.

What if i have a bladder irritation,could this cause retention do you think?Im so tired with worry I feel sick. Im shaky and stressed and my life feels so bad right now. Please help me, I dont know who to turn to. Does anyone know a good urologist in Sydney. Its 3.30am Im on the computer, again, trying to help myself. I cant sleep with worry and discomfort. Im sorry to bombbard you all, but I dont know where to turn. Does this sould like IC to you?
Camillamoo

kelly McC
01-29-2006, 05:51 AM
hello and welcome,
A uro would be able to diagnose IC .Take a look at the handbook it has of helpful information including trying the diet. I hope someone in your area will be able to suggest a Uro for you. Hope your healing and feeling better soon,
Kelly

ICNDonna
01-29-2006, 06:35 AM
I'm very glad you found us. You'll find a lot of helpful information here. I think it would be a good idea to have a look at the Patient Handbook (see link at the top of this page on the left). Putting yourself on an IC diet could be a huge help. There's also information there about symptoms and diagnosis, which could help you in talking with your doctor.

If you are having bladder spasms, that can cause retention. There are some medications that will help relax those muscles so you can urinate more freely --- I suggest you discuss this with your doctor.

And let us know how you are doing.

Warm hugs,
Donna

traceann
01-29-2006, 06:38 AM
Hello and :welcome: to the gang! As you have gotten great advice already, I will just leave it at that! Oh, and say that I really agree - the diet seems like it would be a huge tool for you if you already know that the mustard has the potential to aggrivate! ;)

Hugs!
:)

Rosalie
01-30-2006, 12:34 PM
:welcome:
Welcome to the ICN boards, Camillamoo. You are in the roight place for help and support. Check out the diet, it helped me a lot while waiting for a diagnosis.
There are three others on the boards from the Sydney, Sara (Anxious One), Nadia (nss) and George. Once they read your post I am sure they will let you know which Urologist they see. A cysto that shows nothing is common so that doesn't necessarily rule out IC. However, there are many other problems that have similar symptoms. I was finally diagnosed with chronic urethritis and whatever helps IC generally helps me.
This must be a very confusing and worrying time for you. Hang in there, I'm sure you will find a uro to help you. Unfortunately sometimes we have to sift through them first.
Keep posting. There are many threads here with much information but there are also some just to rant and rave about anything really. And some just to put a smile on your face on a bad day. :)

MarthaB
01-30-2006, 12:54 PM
:) Hi and :welcome: from me as well, I cannot really help you uro wise, because I live in Brisbane, But like Rosalie said the other guys who live in sydney can help you find a uro in Sydney, I'm sure one of them will see this thread very soon and help you out,
Take care,
Martha :)

George
01-30-2006, 01:16 PM
Hi All,

I'm from Sydney but I'm a bit hesitant to recommend my Uro. As you all know I've got a few problems from a treatment last November. No body's fault really, but my confidence in my Uro (URO number 2) is a little down just at the moment, so I would not recommend him to Camillamoo.

George

Camillamoo
01-30-2006, 02:04 PM
Hi All,

Thank you very much for your replies. I feel a little better today and yesterday, I think because I have been drinking so much water, bi-carb and ural! That sort of makes me think this pain linked to the bladder. Whats worrying me too, is the headache that seems to be there all the time, and worse when the bladder feels worse. Its just so strange.

Its just so good to have understanding. Thank you

Camilla

MarthaB
01-30-2006, 04:04 PM
:) hi there, glad you are feeling a little better, yes IC is a very strange disease with a lot of strange syptoms, I don't get the headaches, but everytime I flare I get really hot feet.
Be careful with the ural, I cannot handle it, it makes everything burn, I think it's because of the fizz in it.
Martha :)