PDA

View Full Version : What I Wish My Family Understood


lauraads
01-18-2006, 02:39 PM
Baring my soul. My family and friends love me, but they can only take so much, you know? Like so many of us I have had a hard time and get tired of the constant challenges, frustrations and pains of my IC. I needed an outlet this evening for my mystery pains, etc., so I penned (or typed) what I will refer to as my IC Poem. I am being a little melodramatic but at my worst this is what I truly do wish for! Mostly, I am well adjusted and get through the minutes, days, weeks and months one step at a time. This is my way of dealing today and I wanted to share. At once I am both hopeful and sorry if you can relate! - Laura in Florida

All I Want is One Good Day

All I want is one good day...
Just one day where nothing ails me.

Just one day that when I smile it's not through clenched teeth and I feel it tickle me to my toes.

Just one day where I don't have to wonder if my family secretly thinks I have rounded some new bend of symptoms they cannot see.

Just one day that I can throw caution to the wind; be released from the constant refrain of, "What's in it? from my soup to my soap".

Just one day where I won't have to endlessly plan for my trip based on rest stops, safe restaurants and smooth roads.

Just one day when I won't have to worry that a passionate embrace today will result in pain tomorrow.

Just one day when I will get to sleep, really sleep through the night, instead of marking the hours by the clock on my regular trips to the bath.

Just one day when I won't have to feel that everything, simply everything must be learned by trial and error; oh so much trial and so much error.

Just one day, just one single day -- is that too much to ask? -- when I will feel "a part of" again, and not apart from so much of what I took for granted before. If I had only known; if I had not squandered those days, all those days....why is it so hard to remember what it tasted like and felt like inside and out to just be, without what ails me?

Is that too much to ask? Just one day? Just one single day where nothing ails me? :angel:

m3rryjane
01-18-2006, 03:28 PM
wow..thats wonderful! really..
i just wish for God to join this forum and read your post so that He may grant your wish..
:)

vm
01-18-2006, 03:30 PM
Wow!!!!!!!! That is awesome. Would you mind sending a copy to Jill in case she doesn't see it here? I think she would really, really like that. :)

ICNDonna
01-18-2006, 05:29 PM
I agree that it is awesome --- and I forwarded your post to Jill.

Donna

callie0767
01-19-2006, 04:51 AM
wow what a great poem!!! i emailed it to my parents because after 18 years they still don't get it or are supportive of me.plus i also printed it to show to some other family members. i am so envious of people who have such love and support from thier spouses,boyfriends and family. i have a supportive boyfriend but he lives about an hour and a half away.

pomeranianic
01-19-2006, 05:16 AM
Thanks so much for the nice poem. I printed it and put on my refrigerator.
so my family and friends can see it when they come over.
I have other poems up there. two are from my son talking to me from heaven. I read them all the time.

icnmgrjill
01-19-2006, 08:43 AM
Love it! Can I reprint this in our newsletter???

Jill :)

marsi4
01-19-2006, 11:06 AM
Wonderful poem, heartfelt.

Marsi4

Babs RN
01-19-2006, 11:27 AM
Wow, going on my fridge too...you need to publish it.

Hugs,
Barb :grouphug:

sacausa
01-20-2006, 02:50 AM
That's a great poem, it really puts into words what life with IC is truly like and how the symptoms are not only pain but affects our daily lives.

TexasHoney
01-28-2006, 06:49 PM
That's a wonderful poem. You are very talented. It really speaks about what us ICer's go through.