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Debbie12
07-08-2005, 10:24 AM
A friend of mine and her ex-husband have been fighting allot. During a fight he asked her why she cared about who he was dating, when she just ignored the question he keep pressing her. Finally she admitted she was jealous. After she thought about it over night she emailed him the next day that she still had feelings for him and this is his response.

"I really can't reply to this right now, other than we had been getting along great for most of last year and this year, but for the last few weeks, its been a terrible relationship between you and I. I don't even think we are near even being friends at this point.

I won't say never and will keep my mind open, but why don't we just try to get along for the time being."

When she asked what he meant by this he sent a this.

"What I meant when I said I won't say never was although it was the farthest thing from my mind because of the last few weeks, and my initial reaction, was no way, I thought that I shouldn't say that. I don't hate you, and never have, although it has been very hard the last few weeks not to get mad, I am trying really hard not to do so.

At this point, all I can say that I can't consider anything more than just trying to get along for Katy's sake. Of course, I still have feelings for you and always will - that's what is keeping me from hating you or getting that mad at you for the past few weeks."

Do you think he wants to try and work things out?

ICNJess
07-08-2005, 01:41 PM
This is just my opinion, but...

It sounds to me like he is just being cordial for the sake of their daughter (is that who Katy is?) I don't know the whole story or anything, but that's just what it sounded like to me. It sounds like he doesn't want to hurt her feelings, and is just trying to let her down gently. I could be wrong though??

kadi
07-08-2005, 03:09 PM
That's my take on it too. Or that he is very confused...
Either way, I'd say, just try to keep it polite & don't try for anything more than good joint parenting...

tigger_gal
07-09-2005, 04:08 AM
I agree with you gals..... I hope she can just blow this off and consider him a man lol.. seriously.. :))
hugs
Brat