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creatingkarma
02-03-2005, 05:59 AM
I posted a few months ago about the trouble I was having with this old dog of mine. My husband refused to have her put to sleep & it was becoming a huge issue for me to take care of her. I just wanted to update you all on what has happened.

We adopted Raven a year & 1/2 ago after a friend of my mo-in-law witnessed her being pushed out of a van in traffic. My heart went out to this dog that was not wanted, so I brought her home. We immediately noticed that she had breathing problems. She always breaths like she just ran 20 miles in 100 degree weather. She didn't breathe - she panted. The vet couldn't figure out why. They first thought it was laryngitis after putting her under & looking at her throat & seeing that it was inflamed. After a couple rounds of meds, she still wasn't better. Then she got pneumonia & had to spend a week in the doggie hospital receiving iv antibiotics & fluids. She still wasn't any better as far as her breathing was concerned. Besides her breathing, Raven was half blind, half deaf, half brained & couldn't hardly walk due to arthritis. She would go outside & eat her poop then come inside & throw it up - a couple times a day. She was real hard to take care of. Anyways, she passed away on Monday. It's sad, but a good thing that she's no longer suffering. My other dog, Abe, is real sad. Raven passed away in the hall & my other dog refuses to walk down the hall. He's real sad acting - doesn't want to play & he keeps looking down the hall with real sad eyes. Poor Abe. Even though Raven was a pain to take care of, we all still loved her. She taught me a lot about myself. She made me realize that no matter how much of a pain I am to take care of - people still love me. Even though she had faults - people still loved her & she still had something to give to the world. She didn't deserve to be thrown from that van just because her health wasn't what it used to be. All she wanted & needed was love & I'm blessed to have been the one to give that to her.

rhea
02-03-2005, 06:03 AM
:angel: you are an angel! It is good to know that although Raven had a rough time at the end there she had so much love and compassion. I h ope Abe feels better soon...

Haysmom3
02-03-2005, 08:13 AM
Your story was so touching, poor Abe they really notice when something happens to their mate. I am a foster dog mom, I have 2 of my own (rusty and bo) and then at least 1 foster (basset hounds) at all times. I know the last thing you are probably thinking about but it may help him if you get another friend. I know with my little guys, rusty goes to the groomer and the day he goes bo is so sad. He just waits by the door for him to come back. I have an elderly foster now (jerry) who is 11. I don't think he is going to find a forever home. I think we will have him for the duration. But thats okay because he is so full of love and we love him. It just amazes me the horrible things people can do to animals. Just throw them out like they were trash. Anyway, I just wanted to say that I am very sorry for your loss.

poetgirl
02-03-2005, 08:54 AM
I'm sorry to hear about Raven. You gave her a good home to spend her final years in and loved her, despite her issues. In a way, maybe she was lucky she was thrown from the van, because she found you!

I adopted my dog from the Humane Society, and she definitely has issues (severe anxiety from loud noises/bright lights, like thunderstorms and even the TV, as well as fear-aggression towards other dogs) that can make some days and situations very trying, but I wouldn't trade her for the world. She was in the shelter for 4 months because no one wanted her. And I could tell she had been mistreated by her previous owners. But as soon as I saw her, I knew she belonged with me. There is just a special quality about her, even though she can be really weird sometimes. Her extreme sensitivity, which is what probably contributes to her anxiety, also makes her very perceptive and empathetic. I think it's kind of funny that both she and I are taking Elavil. :)

Prayers for Raven, and to Abe too. You sound like a good dog mommy!

VickiB
02-03-2005, 01:50 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss! You gave her a wonderful life with the little time she had left, especially considering that her care was hard on you.

When our old Bud died, it took Whiskey a long time to get over it. It's sad for everyone.

Vicki

ktrncl
02-03-2005, 01:59 PM
I'm very sorry to hear of your lost like me I am the proud owner of a toy poodle named cyrus who I adore very much. I know how aggrivating they can be but, they are so darn loveable . I hope time will ease your pain and Bo's.

JenG
02-03-2005, 02:47 PM
So sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my first dog about 4 years ago and it was a really hard time. You were wonderful for taking such good care of her, she was lucky to have you. Our new dog was born with congenital cataracts. He was almost blind by the time he was one. We had surgery done to try to remove them, and one was successful, but he lost one eye. Now, though, he can see better with one eye than he ever could with his two bad eyes. We've spent a lot of time and money taking care of him but he is worth every bit! All the love we give to him comes back ten fold!

ICNJess
02-04-2005, 10:00 AM
I am so sorry about Raven. :( It is hard, but at least she isn't suffering. Bless you for taking her in under such awful circumstances. Hugs to you and Abe. :(

Hugs,
Jess

angelaharrell
11-16-2005, 08:09 AM
I am so sorry for your familys' loss. I know how hard it must be for you. It sounds like God's plan was for you to find each other, like you both needed each other.

It takes Dogs a long time to get over a loss, I don't know if it's because they really don't understand or if they do understand and don't know how to cope. Either way it's very hard on the surviving dog.

I'm sure you're giving him the extra hugs and attention he needs, just keep on hugging him, you'll both start to feel better.

creatingkarma
11-16-2005, 08:40 AM
Wow! This thread is from February! Thank you for your reply. I guess I'll update everyone now. Raven is not forgotten, but we all have made it through the loss. Abe is doing just fine now. We just got him a puppy 3 weeks ago. Her name is Sarah & she's 13 weeks old now.

hoping4acure
11-16-2005, 09:20 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss...God bless you. You did such a wonderful thing by taking her in and giving her the love she needed. She is in a better place...no more suffering. I lost my Rotti (10 years YOUNG) 3 years ago, so I know exactly how you feel. :kissing:

emilyrose197377
11-16-2005, 09:41 AM
I am sorry to hear. You are in my thoughts and prayers.