(((((hugs))))))

[tigger_gal]

Hello all,
I guess most of you know I have had a never ending year of stress, dissapointments, and deaths of family and friends...
I have been short fused, emotional, and, in pain to say the very least. After speaking to a friend today, I realize I spend to much time on my computer, and not enough time trying to over come the obstacles in my life. I have also come to realize that I am not capable of being supportive to all of you, if I can not be objective. My own personal issues are lashing out and it is not fair to any of you. I will let you know how Shane is doing in the prayer request boards. However, at this moment I find it in my best interest to find other things to do then sit in front of my computer.... I will read the boards a little at a time, if I do not post Its not that I don't care.. I do not want to hurt anyones feelings, but I find it best to back off right now...
You all take care and I will be back eventually.....
hugs
Brat

[dyno]

Cindy, we all go through times where we just have to take a break from the boards and you should not feel bad about that. I also think all of us need to have other interests. It is not healthy to just sit in front of the computer all day. Although I am home some of every day, and more the days I work from home, I have started sewing this last year and it is a wonderful way for me to fill my day and I am also making Christmas gifts.
I hope you find something to help you fill your days. We will all look forward to seeing your posts when you do come on. Good luck and my prayers are with you. :grouphug:

[dancemomof2]

You know my phone is always here for you. These boards are stressful at time. I really hope the lashing you took a few days ago on here isn't what has pushed you away. We are all here for each other no matter WHAT are mood is. Like I told you that was so uncalled for and totally NOT needed.
I to have slacked off here for a couple weeks to give myself a breather. I really hate to see you take a break, you have been such a huge helper to me since i came to the boards, and full of IC info that i was so looking for at time. Not to mention listened about my stupid IC questions that i felt where to silly to post and ask about.

Hugs take care and you know how to ALWAYS reach me anytime.

[Iris]

Hi Cindy, you will be missed, but I totally understand that you need a break from the boards for a while, you surely have had a stressful year. Many good wishes to you, and hope you can have some rest, from the stresses that have been put into your life, this past year. Well wishes and hugs, always pleased to read your posts when you return, you have been a big help to all of us, in so many ways, hugs and take care of yourself, Iris. :kissing: :grouphug:

[icnmgrjill]

Bravo! As someone who has walked in these same shoes, I'm very proud of you for taking a break! We all have our limits.... myself included. Life can be so rich..... and when I think of all the time I lost in front of the computer.... I truly regret it. I could have been writing or painting or making more friends in my town.

My approach to the internet is now vastly different. I only use it for work... and rarely turn it on at home (unless, of course, there's some sort of crisis here!). I found it very draining to be online more than an hour or so a day, plus it made my eyes a living hell at times.

Big hugs... Jill :)

[vm]

I have had to take many a break from different boards, too. It is amazing what the time away can do for our perspective. :)

[theclownster]

Hi Brat! I feel a little out of touch myself - as I don't always have the time to read all the posts and respond. In spite of that, I do still feel very connected to all of you as I'm sure you will still feel by taking some time off from the boards.

Brat - please do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Don't worry about us. We will be here if you ever need us.

Take Care and may you find peace and hope in the days to come!
Jennifer

[ICNDonna]

Sometimes we all need a break. I'm glad you will be taking some time for just you. I know I have to limit my computer time or it would become an obsession for me.

Warm hugs,
Donna

[andcohen]

You do need to take time. I'm not sure on all the details but by the looks of it you have had a pretty full on time of it.Slow down before you fall down.
I haven't been here that long but it's pretty obvious what an amazing person. I think I would have bailed out & go to the rat house long ago :dizzy:

Forget about us for awhile, we will still be here when you get back.
There are family & friends that need help right now, go to them. I.m sure they will welcome you with open arms, as you are one of the strongest people whom I have come to read about over these board , I.m sure your strenght & compasion will be a big help in any way possiable.

Take some time for you too.


Andrea :flower: :flower: :flower: :flower:

[Dixiefireball]

Cindy you have my number I will always be here for you call me anytime.
sending you hugs and prayers
Rhonda

[donutgirl]

You what you need to do for yourself, Cindy. We care and will be here when you decide to return.

Hugs,

DIANE