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kelly McC
11-01-2004, 05:57 PM
I am going :loco: crazy.. I have 2 sets of neighbor families one with 2 boys and one with twin girls and a boy. Both families allow their children to destroy property ,act rude,swear among many other unspeakable things. Their children are allowed to run wild and never have to be accountable for their actions ? They have gone to the bathroom in their yards, sprayed my son with a carburator fluid from head to toe, jumped off thier trampaline naked and just recently pulled hundreds of dollars worth of landscape work out @ at our local community center. I was not aware of this situation till recently but all 5 children had to pay for new flowers and re plant them and do 1 volunteer community service for the center. Last Thursday my children volunteered to help the center do its annual haunted house. Not knowing @ the time the other children volunteered because the police officer made them.
Off they went had I known mine would not have went anyways 4 hours later the children had a tale to tell. The two brothers plotted several days ahead of time ( heard by a child who attends the after school program @ center ) to ruin the haunted house. These children hit toddlersa, smacked my son with made up gravestone and broke it on his head. Hitt a toddler with a pumkin in the head. Pulled spider web off the ceiling that wrapped around a childs' neck. Wrapped toddlers up in matts and laughed @ them as they scattered to get free. Said the f--- you word to several paernts who intervined. The damge was so bad that at least 200 people had to be turned away because the entire scene was wrecked they even ruined all the costumes wripping them. I found out today the police were called and their parents were called yet the children still out outside causing havic. They told their parents our children did it and they believe it... The town is now stepping in they have pay for all the damages still believing my children did it. My husbands boss has called the police on them 7 times. We are ina senior citizen housing and he is the super. These children have swore at his boss , begged for money from the seniors,shot rocks @ building and been loud and crazy. the cops finally said basically stop bothering them. Their parents deny everything..They now are trying to fight my children and making their lives miserable. His boss called the home office and basically they said my husband and myself needed to control the situation and if we could not then we needed to move out.. Grrrrr this makes me made. What can I do. Who do I call or contact.. I am a stickler mom and both my boys now if it were them they would be punished they have been called losers and told were so gay. just because we care and love them. These children caused over a grand in damages between flowers and the haunted house and they went tricker treating and still continue to play outside my window everyday even though they live on another side road. This is causes me so much stress and thus I am in a huge flare.
Kelly

ICNDonna
11-01-2004, 06:06 PM
It may be that the only way you will be able to get out of this situation is to move. If you're renting, I think I would begin looking for a place. You have to feel sorry for those kids, but it makes it tough when they are giving your kids a hard time. I hope it works out for you.

Warm hugs,
Donna

Katrina
11-01-2004, 07:50 PM
I am so sorry Kelly. I wish I had some mirracle advise for you but the best I can say is pray and listen to your heart. I hope this works out for you. I so hope you feel better soon.
:grouphug::kiss:
:pray::kiss:

Imustpee
11-02-2004, 03:51 AM
Do you have a video or digital camera? If not borrow one...take pictures of these kids in the act then take them to the police..

work it
11-02-2004, 04:27 AM
Wow that is so rough, I know for me I would want to move also but then why should these kids force me out of my home. When it comes down to it, it's the parents of these kids that are not stepping up, Maybe you'll need to get that video evidnece then take the kids and parents to court. Maybe the judge and scare some sense into the kids but also the parents that they need to take better control of their kids. Good luck!

kelly McC
11-02-2004, 04:35 AM
I am considering video taping it or taking pictures. Because my husband works here we get our apartment free plus utilities.
kelly

kelly McC
11-02-2004, 01:34 PM
This is sad to say but the 3 neighbor boys stayed after school today and road my younger son's bus home. They attacked him on the bus. Hitt him and threatend to kill him. I called the police and although he said really legally until they are 16 trespassing, and getting a restraining order dont apply. However he said he would talk to his supervisor get other police reports and talk to the center that the children ruined thier property .he said with all these things and what ocurred today they may be able to get the kids in family court. He said call the police for all their actions and disturbances and keep everything documented. I also emailed both school principles and called the disipline cordinator for the bus garage.
Kelly

work it
11-03-2004, 03:35 AM
Oh kelly I am sorry, how is your son handling this? Did he get hurt on the bus at all? It angers me when stuff like this happens on the bus and the driver does NOTHING! I hope everything turns out okay and these bullies get there day in court.

kelly McC
11-03-2004, 02:03 PM
He had a very large welt on his head. But his pride was hurt was hurt more than anything. The children swore @ him and all the kids on the bus shot hards candy @ him. Cop said nothing can be done to the children till they are 16. Their dad called my husbands boss today and a sponsor of the bilulding we live in. They are actually saying we are attacking them for no reason. Please I am @ my witts end with these people.
Kelly

Imustpee
11-03-2004, 02:26 PM
Call a paralegal,most work free or very cheap, get some info from them, ask them what can be done..another option may be a mediator, someone unbiased 3rd party that can help both families work out the problems they are having with each other..