Kelli
01-16-2004, 07:28 AM
Well, to start from the beginning to give a better understanding of whats going on, my husband and I separated back in August. We had some issues with trust and obsessive behavior that after 8 years of marriage, just would not work themselves out. No matter what I said to try to reassure him, he wouldn't listen. So, I decided to leave and give him some time to think about things. After all, if you cant trust your spouse, whats the point?
Well, we have been kinda seeing each other off and on since then. Going out sometimes and I have gone out there and stayed weekends with him trying to work things out. Well, I got pregnant and I guess he just assumed I was going to come back right after that. We had talked about the issues still at hand and even though I was pregnant, those things still had to be resolved. Since, he's started going to counseling once a week. I have been going since before the separation and continue to go every couple of weeks. The last month or so has been awesome!!!!! He's really proved to me that although he still has some issues that need to be worked on, he's willing to continue to work on them. So, as of right now if things continue to go well, we will be moving back in together on March 1st. I really REALLY love this man. If I didn't I wouldn't have tried to work things out. I just pray that things don't go back to the way they used to be. So, keep your fingers crossed for me.
Kelli
Well, we have been kinda seeing each other off and on since then. Going out sometimes and I have gone out there and stayed weekends with him trying to work things out. Well, I got pregnant and I guess he just assumed I was going to come back right after that. We had talked about the issues still at hand and even though I was pregnant, those things still had to be resolved. Since, he's started going to counseling once a week. I have been going since before the separation and continue to go every couple of weeks. The last month or so has been awesome!!!!! He's really proved to me that although he still has some issues that need to be worked on, he's willing to continue to work on them. So, as of right now if things continue to go well, we will be moving back in together on March 1st. I really REALLY love this man. If I didn't I wouldn't have tried to work things out. I just pray that things don't go back to the way they used to be. So, keep your fingers crossed for me.
Kelli