in between a rock and a hard place

[Dixiefireball]

i'm so sick of my mother in law everytime we go around her since her drug head daughter wanted her 14 year old son back we have been raiseing for over a year and half now. she is putting me down and do you think my husband will say anything HECK NO! what ever this friggin family does or says to me it is okay He don't take up for me we have been married 13 years i have bent over backwards to help his family money wise when I worked food even car and phone needless to say they messed my cerdit up! gggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I don't know what to do i'm sick of them and i'm sick that my husband want stand up for me i'm about ready to say you can go live with them until you grow up gggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! what would you do?

[Sue]

wow, sorry! i'll pray for u dixie. suc~
sclaus1@pacbell.net~

[auntiedeb]

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[ICNJess]

Hi Rhonda--

Sorry that you are dealing with this on top of being sick!!! :(

If it were me, I'd tell my husband exactly what is bugging me and why. Stand your ground. There's no reason for his family to be treating you this way, and there's no reason to take that from him.

Lotsa luck, hugs, and love,
Jess grouphug kissing

[tigger_gal]

Rhonda grouphug kissing
You know what I would say toilet you know how to find me when you need me I am always here for you... I Love You Rhonda.
Cindy

[Dixiefireball]

thanks everyone,
Jess i have told him and he finally called his mother but its not over yet. i'm still angery i have cussed about this and fussed so its not over until i feel like they have said they was sorry and i havent heard that yet all his mother had to say is i havent treated rhonda like that but the heck she hasnt i think she wants to put everyone down just because her daughter is a drug addt. and she wants to put everyone down to her level well i hate to say it but i'm a better person then she is i keep my kids always have and plus we keep her child for over a year and half and the only reason she wanted him back was because her medicaid was going to be cut off and she couldnt get her drugs. without buying them off the streets or sleeping for them. if you know what i mean. i'm so angery maybe if i wasnt sick i wouldnt be so mad about this but this isnt helping one bit! :mad:

[Dixiefireball]

ps i will tell ya'll the whole story tomorrow when there isnt so many eyes around.

[jaime15]

Rhonda,
My sis is going through the same crap. OMG it coulda been her post you just wrote. eek
She made her hubby confront his mom one day when they were all there and she started one of her things. So sis gave her hubby the "eye" for you better stick up for me. Well he didn't do very well and she left. He had to get his mom to drive him home. scream
They've only partially worked on some of the in-laws problems. It's a long road ahead.
One thing is if he wants to go see his mother, he can go by hisself! You need to stay home girl and enjoy that alone time...Email me if you want to talk.. kissing

[Dixiefireball]

Am i promise here is the long story of my sister in law mother inlaw husband children and me.

WHY ME???
a year ago my mother in law was in the hosp and if it wasnt for me she would had died i found her in her house passed out truning pull gave her cpr and had my oldest child call 911.
ANYWAY
her drug head daughter was no where around My sister in law is on drugs really badly and know one will get her help they say when she wants help she will get it and she also shoplifts.
so my motherinlaw said she couldnt take care of tyler anymore my sister in laws child so we took him in and got him into school and treated him like one of our own. everything was fine until about a mth ago. My husband and I walk in her house and she jumps up out of the chair and said we got to get tyler back because tonya's medicaid is get turned off which we knew was a lie they send you a letter out and they give you a mth before they cut it off they will not cut it off in the middle of the mth.(medicaid) so we fussed about it a while and said who will take care of tyler joyce (mother in law) can't get out of bed early in the mornings and the only time the mother is out of bed is to go to the metadone clinic or to find more street drugs then she passes out I HAVE WENT THERE AND HEARD SOMETHING FALL IN THE BATH ROOM AND IT WAS TONYA SHE PASSED ON THE TOILT AND FEEL IN THE FLOOR.
Even her mother said the other night she told this to my husband she went in the bathroom at two in the morning and she was in the floor naked as a jay bird laying in pee. WHY WANT SOMEONE DO SOMETHING ABOUT HER???? eek since then everytime we go up there i stay in the car i want get out because i dont want to hear the crap Joyce my mother in law starts on me. why do you do this why didnt you do that. its none of her bussiness i take care of my home life and she thinks i lie about my disease. Joyce has COPD of the lungs and takes only her tonya can be sick no one else can. while we had tyler his grades went from 40-45 to 75-80 he came out of special ed classes and he was so much happyier i want to call dss so badly but if i do i'm a bad person my husband called her last night and said something to her just so i wouldnt call dss and mess up his family. I have already told him my children are not to stay there anymore and i dont want them to visit either if they want to see them they can come to the car or come to the house but if she is going to act like a butthole then stay at home.
AM I WRONG HERE? people like that i dont want around me i told my husband if he wanted to go see his sister and mother then he can go alone me and the kids was not going back! Oh i forgot to add the grandmother does illege things to i dont want to say what. i dont want anyone to get in trouble and this may even be edited i hope i havent done nothing wrong but this is the whole story like i promise i would tell you about i couldnt last night because of my husband and i'm not worried about him reading it here because lucky the only thing he knows how to do on a computer is play pool and the poker game and i have to pull it up for him then I love my husband we have three wonderful children together we have been married for 13 years. I JUST WANT TO DIVORCE HIS MOTHER AND SISTER I WANT THEM OUT OF OUR LIFES FOREVER. You dont know how much that hurts me to say because i have called her mom all these years everything was okay until Tonya decided she wanted her child back but heck the only thing he sees is her either in bed with older men for money or drugs or her passed out i feel so sorry for him and i really love Joyce I just mad at her right now :mad: she trys to make me feel like i'm a low down person just like my sister in law is. eek frown

[ICNJess]

Hey girl!

Welll that is an awful lot, and I do mean AWFUL! eek That boy should not be put back with a woman like that. I'm surprised child services isn't doing anything for him! He is better off with you!

I think it's great that you are standing your ground. You have every right as a mother to decide where your children can go, and who you want them to be around.

Anyway, just wanted to say that I hope it gets better for you. There has to be a ray of sunshine coming along for you. You've been through so much lately!!!

Hugs and love,
Jess grouphug kissing

[ICNDonna]

If the child doesn't want to return to his mother and has adequate reason not to, one thing you could do is to encourage him to talk to a school counselor. That puts you out of being in the middle.

It's very important for a 14-year-old to feel wanted for himself --- I encourage you to let him know how very much you wish he could stay with you. At his age he also should have something to say about it.

Sending an encouraging hug,
Donna

[Iris]

Oh what a mess, and you are in the middle of it, which must be so stressful for you, and you do not want stress with your IC. I feel for you, you have been through a lot yourself, and do not want any more on your shoulders. Hope that something can be worked out for your sake and your own family, take care and look after yourself, hugs and lots of prayers for you in this situation, Iris angel grouphug

[tigger_gal]

HUGS to you Rhonda,
I think Donna had a great Idea.. that gets you an out :) You know I am here for you.
Brat

[Kelli]

oh my goodness Rhonda, you sure have a full plate don't you. Hugs hun. I think you should fight Tylers mother for full custody. Obviously she cannot care for him, being addicted to drugs and living off of the state. He has a better home there with you and your husband and a judge will see that. The only reason she wants him back anyways is to get her dope money. Also, like Donna said, Tyler is old enough to go to someone and say Hey, I want to live with my aunt, not my mom. And they will usually go with what the child wants. Things you need to get would be his report cards from before he came with you, and after. If there is a great deal of difference with his grades, they will see he is comfortable where he is and if he goes back home to his mom, he will more than likely fail out of school. Also, have him tell you about any experiences when he was left alone because she was gone, or passed out high. Those things can be used in a custody case to prove the stability of the mother/father. Also, try to see if you can get information from the Methadone clinic. Anything that you can use against her. I know it's playing a bit dirty but you know how his life would be if he were sent back with her. Looking in the best interest of the child, I would say he is ALOT better off where he is, and I'm sure any judge in the country would agree.

[Jen_Cole]

Dixie-I am with Kelli on this one. That child belongs and DESERVES to be in a place he can feel safe and be loved. You would make a far better mother than the current one.

I've said this before and I'll say it again...YOU are his family. You are the one he chose to be with. This isn't a contest. And if it were, YOU would be the winner. I hope your hubby wakes up soon. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but it's what I believe. I hope your situation improves SOON!!

[livinonedge]

I have had 2 husbands. One now and an ex. Both of them will not stand up to their families. I stand up for myself and fortunately I get along well with with new in laws but he never says a word no matter what they say to him. Some men just never grow up i guess. Good Luck Girl!!

Justice

[Katrina]

Your not wrong here, and you have to do what you feel is right in your heart. I am so very sorry you are going through this. And not believing you have a a disease, grrr, makes me mad just thinking about it, I would hate to being going through what you are going through. Trust your heart.
God Bless You grouphug grouphug grouphug angel kissing

[Dixiefireball]

We talked to Tyler yesterday and he said he misses us and will come up for the weekend but he dont want to move back in with us because joy needs him that is his grandmother and my mother inlaw that is what the children call her joy instead of joyce
Poor Tyler being only 14 takes he has to stay there because his mother will jump on joyce when she is high. OMG that just makes me cry I trutly want to call dss but i dont want to hurt tyler feelings to like he doesnt have enough on his back to carry tyler use to hate me until he grew up and figure out i really loved him Jeff my husband is the only daddy he has ever knew and he hated me for marrying jeff! but that is a totally diff. story now. I need some answer i dont know what to do my husband also misses him but makes the comments i guess to make me feel better our power bill went down the water bill is down do you know how much less we spent in gercory this week i know he cost i'm not stupid! but that dont make a dang. its love that counts and he needs it. please someone tell me what you would do if you was dealing with this i dont know. frown

[lotsofgirls]

Hi Rhonda,
Its alot easier to give advice on this than to walk in your shoes, so please don't feel offended by any thing I say. I am so impressed with your stregnth and courage to help this young man.

My thought is that, if possible, put the needs of the child before all else. It looks like there are some adults that think they are more important than the child, but they are not. And they will figure out there lives without him as a pawn anyway. If possible, and if you want to, I would try to get Tyler out of that situation, as it is very hard on a child of 14 to be there with his mother in such bad shape and his grandmother up to things?? Even though it will create hard feelings in the family, you can be confident you are doing the right thing if it is in the child's best interest. Hopefully your husband will come around.

You are an angel for caring so much about this child, with all of your own challenges.

Cath

[Zookeeper]

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I feel so bad for you.You have alot on your shoulders.
This is just a suggestion of course,but maybe you and Tyler should check out your local Al-Anon for support and is very helpful info you both could use.Maybe go together at first to hold each others hand sort of,Then go to seperatly so it gives him a chance to vent without worring you so much.I know it's hard to watch and frightning at the same time.I hope things get beter for you someday soon.Good luck with the relatives I know family is important to you or you wouldn't be so upset.
Best of luck to you & hang in there.
Take care, Zookeeper Kim
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[ICNDonna]

Another thing you might consider is talking with the school counselor where Tyler goes to school. Will he be going to the same school he has while he lived with you? If so, it's reasonable for you to talk with the counselor to let him/her know about the change in where he will be living --- and it wouldn't hurt to let them know a little of what is going on with his family. Again, that alerts some people who are in a position to help him, without putting you smack in the middle.

Right now you need to be there for him when he needs you, and he needs to know that you love and want him.

Warm hugs,
Donna

[Annie2]

Oh what a difficult situation for you to be in! At one time or another all of us need professional help in dealing with life's crises. Have you considered seeking the help of a minister or counselor? Someone with professional training and who knows all the ins and outs of the community resources available to help you and the family could guide you through this situation. If you are not comfortable talking with the family minister about this matter, I would think one of your doctors could refer you to a family counselor in your area. This is effecting your health and certainly a referral would be warranted. If your husband would go with you, so much the better! You both apparently have the same goal of doing what is best for ALL of the children involved, yourselves, and your mother-in-law and sister-in-law. A good professional who is not emotionally involved in the situation could help you see all the options and help both you and your husband negotiate how the two of you TOGETHER, as a team, could handle this situation in a way that is in the best interests of the children and the adults.

In the meantime, you must take care of yourself. Maintain the personal boundaries you have set for yourself. If you ever watch Dr. Phil, you know he constantly reminds us we do teach others how to treat us. We all must demand to be treated with dignity and respect and must treat others in the same manner. Let Tyler know how much you love him and that he has a sanctuary in your home whenever he needs it. A professional can help guide you through any further steps you might need to take.

Know that many are praying for you and your family.

Annie

[Dixiefireball]

when tyler moved out the school knew why i was in tears while i was there they knew it was killing me inside and they knew why i told them when i went in and got his paper to go to a new school. she gave me the local dss number but said i would have to call the one in that city. :( but she also said tyler may fall threw the cracks and be put with foster care. :mad: this is to much on tyler but he will not talk to anyone about it if you ask him he is okay with it but i can see the other side of it we had tyler for a year and a half with no help from them but once there medicaid was to be cut off and there food stamp cut they wanted him back. oh that makes me so mad!!!ggggggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! I wish he would go to someone at the new school and do something but as my husband said its his chose and we have to live with that. I don't feel that way.

[auntiedeb]

grouphug grouphug grouphug Rhonda, pray about this and go with your heart. I know that you can call dss anymously. You know what the right thing to do is. Let dss know that you have taken care of him and his mother and grandmother take him back when things seem to get worse for them. Praying for you.

[dancemomof2]

Rhonda

Keep your chin up. Everyones know how much you love Tyler, and he knows you will always be there for him.


Love and hugs

[Iris]

Dixie so sorry to read about your troubles, it must be heartbreaking for you right now, especially as you feel for the child involved in all this, and you have been his mum for quite a while. Do hope that something works out, and he will not be in foster care, prayers for you and Tyler, take care and love Iris kissing angel

[ICNJess]

Hi Rhonda--

Yeesh doesn't it seem like problems just keep comin and they never end??!?!?!? Ugh!! Well I just wanted to say that I hope things with your mother in law and sister in law and Tyler get better. Things have got to look up soon! I think they gave you some good advice about the school counselor, and I can completely understand that you don't want Tyler slipping through the cracks of the system! eek

Hugs and love,
Jess

[Kelli]

Rhonda, sending big hugs to you honey. I do know what you are going through. My ex and I took care of his nephew for 3 years. He was born with a rare birth defect called an Imperferated Rectum. In lamens terms, he didn't have a little hole to poo out of. So they had to do surgery when he was just a day old and give him a colostomy. Well, his mother was 19 years old and couldn't handle dealing with this sick child. She brought him to me one day when he was screaming his little heart out and she couldn't figure out what was wrong with him. Well, she decided to leave him with us. Well, when he was about 8 months old they reversed the colostomy and built him a new colon and rectum. It took about a year for it to heal completely on the inside and out and for him to begin to have regular bowel movements. We had a really rough time toilet training him because he had no feeling there and couldn't tell when he had to go, until it was almost too late. Well, he was just over 3 when he was completely toilet trained and no longer needed to go to the University Hospital for checkups. His mom decided she wanted him back. I called my lawyer and tried with everything I had to fight her to keep him. He was like my own child. I had raised him and gone through all of the good times, and bad with him. He knew she was his mom, but he called me Mommy Kelli. I left one afternoon to go to work, and he was across the street at the babysitters. She came in and took him. I got a call from the babysitter saying she took him while he was playing in the yard with the other kids. She ran in to answer the phone and when she came back, he was gone and she seen my sis in laws car flying down the street. But there was nothing I could do. I lived in Iowa at the time, she lived in Illinois, and when she took off, she took him to Wisconsin. Iowa DSS said they would NOT cross the border to get him back. I even tried moving to Wisconsin for several months fighting to get him back. She still won because she is his biological mother. But, I know I had made some mistakes and those mistakes probably cost me the chance to get him back. They also looked at the fact that I had MS, and if I would be able to take care of him as long as he may need.

I'm not telling you this to stop you from fighting for Tyler. I'm telling you this so if you decide to fight her and try to get him back, be VERY careful of what you do and say. The whole saying, what you say and do can be held against you in a court of law, isn't a joke!!! If you need ANY help, just let me know and I will try my best to help you in any way I can. Also, Tyler is old enough to make his own decisions. He may be ok with it for a few weeks or a month, but then want to come back "Home"


HUGGS!!!
Kelli

[Dixiefireball]

The biggest thing i believe they can hold against me is i beat the crap out of her a few years ago because of him and my children i mean i got her good but after word i feels sorry for her helped her up but my aunt was there to she jump in her car and stole it really! the cops got the car back but wouldnt take her to jail because if she went i had to go to and the cop said the way she looked after i jumped on her and they wasnt a mark on me then the judge would put more on me and it happen in my yard. really along story but right now i'm just playing it by ear he is talking like he may come back home (here) I believe they will leave it up to him. I can tell he has gotten a little wilder since he been there but we got him last night school is out today in there area teacher work day. thanks everyone will keep you all updated but right now we are not going to do anything but i am staying away from her i'm afraid my temp. will get out of hand and i will sock her a good time. so i'm staying away from her. but me and my mother in law are getting alone again and talking.

[ICNJess]

Hey girl--

Glad you are staying away from her, the last thing you need is for your temper to flare!!! :(
You are in my thoughts, it has got to get easier!!!

Hugs and love,
Jess grouphug

[tigger_gal]

grouphug grouphug grouphug you know i am here to lend an ear
Brat

[Melis 26]

I'd just like to say that I've had issues with my husband's family too. BIG issues. I eventually just let it go. I had to. People are selfish. Blood is thicker than water and all that. Let's just say I forgave but I will NEVER forget. That's the beauty of it....or beast, depending on how you look at it......you don't forget things when you've been hurt. You have a right to be hurt. Don't ever forget it but you also have a right to forgive someone, too. I know it's hard but it's probably the only way people stay in marriages or keep a best friend for life. NOONE is perfect. Also, you can't change people. It's a waste of time to try. It's the way it is. And, like I said before we are all selfish in a way. We all have a tendency to just go on the side of family right away, too. The blood thing.......etc. Don't forget that's his mother and it can't change. Unconditional love has it's drawbacks in certain situations. I know that what I'm saying doesn't totally apply to you because I know you don't want him to disown his Mom or anything. I'm just making a point that I learned from. Maybe it'll help you too.

One last thing. You said something about bending over backwards for his fam. Well, just remember that it makes you the better person. Also, don't forget that every good deed doesn't have to be repaid on earth. You'll find your reward in heaven.

Melis

[Melis 26]

BTW, I only read your first post. I plan on reading the whole 2 pages to get a better look at the situation. I noticed you wrote a lot. I'll reply again after. :)

[Dixiefireball]

we had tyler this weekend and after talking to him i found out he is now smokeing cig and POT eek OMG. I told him cig is one thing i can't say much i still smoke but pot is another and at his age he needs all the brain cells he can get and keep!
Anyway I told his grandmother in hopes she will do something Lord only knows his mother want heck that is how she started out. I have had it I wash my hands in this IF they can't take care of this this is there problem i have done all i can i'm not going to let my self keep getting upset over this banghead I love the child but what else can i do call dss and let them get him and let him run away and make his life wrose????? :confused: If i knew we could get him that would be another story heck i'm really confused but I will not upset myself no longer on this UNTIL HE SAYS OUT OF HIS OWN MOUTH HE WANTS TO COME HOME.
Am I wrong????? :( I have got my ic under control right now and i don't want to lose that! lord only knows the bills are cheaper here now but i do miss him and i'm so afriad of him messing his life up I know he is messing his life up. pot is the way his mother started out and she got where she wanted something more then harder. oh well here i am all messed up but i do still care. I'm going to take care of my family and me. and i'm not going to worry so much about tyler anymore. dang as you can tell i'm all messed up. but i do know what is important and that is my husband my children and me.

[ICNJess]

Hi Rhonda--

Yeesh what a mess. :rolleyes: You have got your hands full, girl!

Maybe you could look into adopting him? You are so sweet, caring so much and wanting him even though your bills would get bigger. Hang in there. You are truly an angel!

Lots of hugs and love,
Jess

[Melis 26]

Hang in there. Take things one day at a time. I'm sure Tyler knows that you care about him.

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[auntiedeb]

grouphug grouphug grouphug grouphug Hang in there. Maybe you could call dss and talk to them about removing tyler from there and put him in your home hon. I know that you love him very much. He seems messed up already. Something more is going on where he is at. Praying for you and your family and tyler.

[ICNDonna]

I know it's really tough for you right now --- I absolutely agree that you need to wait until Tyler wants to come home. He's at an age where forcing him would just make things worse. I just hope he makes that decision soon.

Sending a giant supporting hug,
Donna

[Dixiefireball]

Thank you Donna and thank you all.

my husband told me to wash my hands in the subject so my health wouldnt go back down hill but to tell you the truth since tyler has left my health has gotten better. but i do miss him and i think the most part of that is that i'm worried about him what parent in there right mind would let a 14 year old smoke pot and cig. gggggrrrrrrrrr cussing heck that is how she got started with pot.
but i have to let it go.

[lotsofgirls]

Hi Dixie,
I agree with your husband, you can't let your health go downhill, and you know that anyway. Its hard when a child is at stake. I think the fact that he comes to you on occasion and tells you what is going on means that you are a safety net in his mind, and if things go south for him he will know you are there and reach out to you. The pot smoking may be a "self-medicating" technique if he is upset/depressed. Can you get him a counselor thru school or otherwise if you suspect this? I would agree that he is a high risk kid for drugs, and sometimes there are programs to support those kids (I'm in Canada so its probably different here). The more external safetys around this kid, the more you can let go and not have to feel responsible for him as well.

Take care of yourself, you are doing a great job!!

Cath

[Iris]

Hello Dixie just read your posts, and you have been going through a lot lately. I do agree with your husband, you have to watch out for your own health. I am sure Tyler knows that he has you to come to, and you will be there for him. Please look after yourself, I know you care about him and miss him, but you have been through a lot lately. Take care and hugs, you know we all care about you, so take really good care of yourself, Iris hi kissing grouphug

[Dixiefireball]

I had to go to the er today and plus my daughter had to go she was having bladder spasm all night and up crying with them well my back was hurting so i had it checked out and checked for another uti it came clear for once but yet they did give me a pain shot and more pain meds to take home thank goodness because i was out of pain meds. and i can't get anymore from my doctor to the 17th so these 20 will last until then.
anyway back to tyler
my husband left me home to sleep the pain shot off to go get his payroll check and Joyce jeffs mom called on the cell. she was crying and all upset tonya is all f-up and tyler was upset because joyce and tonya had been almost fist fighting but jeff's uncle was there and broke it up thank goodness because tyler was home Jeff's mom has said this a million times but she said again tomorrow she was going to go to the police department and have them to come take her out of the home to a hosp before it to late.
POOR tonya has been on hard drugs since 91 I pray its not to late for her but right now she wants to die and don't want anyhelp from anyone and she made Jeff promise we would take care of tyler. I'm so confussed.

[Katrina]

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[ICNJess]

Hey,

Aside from the family stuff, I am glad that you got checked out at the hospital and that you've got some pain meds to help you through this pain. Does your daughter have IC?

Maybe Tonya will get some good help now and become clean, and provide a better life for Tyler. :) You've done all that you could do, maybe she'll step up now.

Hope it all works out!

Hugs and love,
Jess

[Dixiefireball]

that is one thing i'm afraid of is that my daugther courtney has ic that scares the living day light out of me. but this is the first time she has ever had bladder spasm so all help me pray my daughter dont get this too :(

as for tonya when we went up there today she was on the couch passed out AND NO her mom still didn't do nothing i honest to god think Joyce her mom is waiting for her to die for crying out loud why want she get help? Why want her mom get her some help? and if we try to get her help we are the lowest people alive and i really can't stand the stress right now with that.
Poor Tyler cried to come back home (here) last night and we couldnt take him because he had school today Joyce said today she had a hard time getting him up this morning he didn't want to go he is ready to come home i knew he would but they want let him i guess I got to figure out what we need to do next but with christmas so close and with jeff being sick money is tight and i don't even know how santa is going to come see my kids. ggggggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. but God will see us threw it he will send us some help somehow God is always looking out for us.
Thanks everyone for listening to me i will keep all of you updated on Tyler.
I LOVE ALL OF YOU THANKS FOR BEING MY SECOND FAMILY WITHOUT YA'LL I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE ALL OF YOU ARE WONDERFUL. GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE HERE. wink

[redstonebef]

All I can say is God Bless you. Do not worry even if she has IC The Lord will take care of them just as he takes care of you. My daughter has IC and now my granddaughter is showing signs of having IC. Maybe a cure will be found soon. Hugs

redstonebef

[Iris]

Hang in there Dixie, you are such a remarkable young woman, you keep bouncing back from everything you are going through. Know that we are all behind you, and thinking about you, and saying prayers that everything will work out for you and Tyler and your daughter. Much love and prayers, and hugs coming your way, keep us posted as to how things are going, love Iris hi kissing grouphug

[Dixiefireball]

Thank you you just dont know how much that ment to me

Thank you all for standing behind me on this i really needed your support and i pray i can help you somehow one day soon to I love each and everyone one of you any time ya'll need me please pm me i will be here for you no matter what.
Sending all of you warm and happy wishes. grouphug
I have my IC angel's and that is everyone one of you. angel grouphug kissing