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JudyS
09-22-2004, 02:07 AM
I'm feeling a bit under a curse these days....after having to leave my very beloved poms with my mom & brother and my very spoiled sun conure with a friend when we came out to California (for a minimum of 6 months), the only pet I (we) were left with was Peanut, a pocket mouse who we have had for more than 3 years. He is about 2 inches long, not including his tail and weighs no more than a nickel and is very cute. He is very tame and pretty fearless for something so tiny. He got a cool new cage when he got here with lots of colored tubes and was spending his days roaming the tunnels and his nights on his wheel. In the evening, my son Brian & I would let him out and play with him.

Last Thursday night, we forgot to close up the tube when Peanut had gone back into his cage for the night and the next morning when Brian got up, Peanut was gone. We looked everywhere for him and since we currently don't have much furniture or stuff in our house, it was easy to see that he wasn't here. Because he is so tiny, he can slip through a space the width of a finger, and I think he went down into the vents below my house and then out. Unfortunately, there are a LOT of cats in this neighborhood, so his fearlessness is going to be fatal I'm afraid. :(

As as last-ditch effort, we dropped one of the tubes into the vent in Brian's room and back up into his cage, hoping that he would come back in search of food if he was just wandering in the vent system.
Brian cried himself to sleep in front of the vent in his room for two nights and his suffering made the loss even more acute for me, although Brian thought that I was heartless and didn't care because I stopped looking after two days. :(

In an effort to distract him from the loss, I offered to buy him a new mouse while we continued to look for Peanut, so on Saturday we went to the store and bought a little gray mouse with a white star/blaze on its face. We brought it home and it retreated immediately to the most isolated spot in the cage that it could find and stayed there. It rarely ate and wouldn't play (even at night) so tonight I got it out and took a closer look at it because I hadn't gotten to see it at the store before it was in the take-home box and then into the cage. It has a rather large tumor growing on its back. So tonight I had to tell my already heart-broken 10-year old that the mouse we just got to ease the loss of Peanut is dying from a tumor. He went to bed crying again & saying that I just didn't care. :( Even worse, he's mad at God -- first for not helping Peanut find his way back and now for killing his only remaining pet.

It just goes to show how important our pets are to us....I miss my dogs & bird every day; the only thing that keeps me from losing it completely about them is that I can have them back when I go "home". They aren't lost to me forever...just for now. I can't say the same about Peanut or Snuggles.

kelly McC
09-22-2004, 02:15 AM
I am sorry...

dancemomof2
09-22-2004, 02:43 AM
so sorry, I personally criede my eye sout when my daughter lost her guinea pig, I can;t imagine losing any of my 3 dogs even though I know it will coem in time. They are my saving grace somethime when I am down and depressed, never have a bad thing to say LOL.
PLease give your son a big hug from all of us. This is really a hard thing todeal with. especially for kids. It has been a year and my 8 year old still sports a snap shot of her guinea pig most everywhere she goes.

Jen_Cole
09-22-2004, 03:17 AM
The poor little guy...it's so heartbreaking to see your kids upset. My son, who is three, broke one of his toys for the first time and cried for hours. I hope Brian will find his mouse soon. Did you try explaining to him where the new mouse will go (Heaven)? How old is Brian?

ICNDonna
09-22-2004, 04:29 AM
That is so sad.

:(
Donna

SharonA
09-22-2004, 11:22 AM
I am so sorry. :(

Mel53H
09-22-2004, 12:09 PM
Gosh! It almost made me cry reading it. Your poor son! It is so very hard to lose a beloved pet. Hugs to both of you. :angel:

Iris
09-22-2004, 01:45 PM
Oh I was so sorry to read about your pets, it is so hard, they become such a part of our families, and our lives. Sending you and your son hugs, Iris. :grouphug: :grouphug:

JudyS
09-22-2004, 02:53 PM
Thanks everyone for your sympathy & support. Brian (who is almost 10) took Snuggles in to be euthanized toay because he didn't want him to suffer. Petco replaced Snuggles with a healthy new mouse, who is now home and has been named Zuki. Brian is having a lot of guilt about Snuggles (on top of the guilt about losing Peanut), but he's dealing with it. I'm very proud of him for doing the responsible owner thing in having Snuggles euthanized, but he was crying when I took Snuggles in. Hopefully, this is the last of the pet issues for at least a little while. :) Thanks again for all your hugs and warm wishes.....Brian has read them all and is very touched.

:grouphug:

VickiB
09-22-2004, 02:58 PM
I'm so sorry. It's very hard to lose a pet!

Hugs to you & Brian,
Vicki

Katrina
09-22-2004, 07:14 PM
I am so so so sorry....I know that situation would certainly have me nuts!#W$%^&
:love: (((big supportive cyber hug with a lot of love)))

XoChelsey03Xo
09-23-2004, 03:34 PM
I am so sorry about your pets. I really don't know what to say. I'm a huge animal lover. I have 5 animals. Two cats and 3 pomeranians. I could never stand to loose one. I feel extremely bad for your son. How old is he? Animals mean the world to so many people. Chelsey :pray:

Cricketmk3
09-24-2004, 03:18 AM
These pets can really grow on you! I have a gray tabby cat named Skippy and he is my shadow. He sleeps on my bed, he sits on the hamper and "helps" me get ready for work, he sits behind my feet when I cook or wash dishes (this is annoying), I always have to step over him because he stays close by and follows me everywhere. I will be truly lost when he goes to Heaven!