View Full Version : Woman trying to steal my hubby.... Umm don't think so
09-20-2004, 02:34 PM
There is a woman at my hubby job She want him to leave me for her...... Ummmm I don't think so...... She need to go find her own man and leave mine alone. My husband tell me everything she say. I've seen her twice before at his job he told me who she was why I was there... I'm glad he's honest with me though.... He told her before that he's married... Anyway She asked him today does he love his wife (Me) He said he ignored her and walked off and that she need to show him some respect knowing that he's married. I'm not worried about it I trust him. I thank him for being honest with me. Wow I can't believe we've been married for 8 yrs... It will be 9 on jan 16. :)
09-20-2004, 02:55 PM
Very good attitude you have there :)
Karma...she'll get what's coming to her one day.
09-20-2004, 02:59 PM
Glad your husband told you and hope she has respect for herself and your husband and you to leave him alone....Sounds like you and your husband have a wonderful relationship
09-20-2004, 03:07 PM
i want say to much about this subject because the same thing happen to me and come to find out my husband was covering his butt and that ladie was trying to become my friend in either case it was a nightmare in my case and pray that things are the way the seem hon.
you are a good person and it seems like you have a good marriage there is a law in the work place if she is acting this way she can lose her job and be sued big time so keep that in mind IF this doesn't stop.
I really miss our chats sorry we havent got to chat in a while i do however have yahoo downloaded again just havent been on much since i'm recovering from surgery and now a nasty cold but we will get together again hopefully soon to talk
hugs and prayers sent to you
09-20-2004, 03:13 PM
Well like Rhonda I am uncertain what to think .....but know that no matter what is going on I am here for you and will always be your friend!
09-20-2004, 03:36 PM
ARRGGHHH...The NERVE of her!!! Hang in there Angela...and Rhonda is right...there are laws to protect your hubby from this kind of harrassment if it continues. I'm glad he is communicating with you about what is going on. I will say a prayer for the situation tonight.
09-21-2004, 10:28 AM
thanks all for your support. :) i told my aunt about her and she told me the same thing about she could lose her job if he tell his boss because it's harrasment.
09-21-2004, 03:44 PM
He should go tell on her! Chelsey :wink:
09-22-2004, 02:56 AM
So sorry that you are going through this. However, I am so thankful for you that your husband is a good man. And yes, this is called sexual harrassment. Your hubby needs to get one of those little pocket recorders & get her on tape & also get him on tape telling her to stop, otherwise it's just one person's word against another's. Maybe he could just tell her that he's going to do something about it if she doesn't stop & actually hold up the recorder & show it to her whenever she comes around. I was sexually harrassed by my boss at the last job that I had. I would miss work because of doctor's appointments & when I asked how he wanted me to make up the time, he wrote down on a piece of paper "just give me a bj" & things like that & started sending me dirty emails. After a couple weeks of this, I told him that's never going to happen & he turned into a real jerk at work & was yelling at me all the time. One day I had had enough & didn't come in to work & a couple hours later, he was knocking on my front door. I didn't answer it & he kept coming back throughout the day. I tried to file a lawsuit against him & went to two different lawyers, neither of which would take my case, so I gave up. Neither lawyer would tell me why they wouldn't take the case. I thought it was a sure win - heck, I had saved all those emails & everything. It was documented, but no one would help me. Needless to say, I never went back to work.
Anyways, I know that you can get through this. Don't let that woman get you down. You have a good man who isn't going to hurt you.
09-23-2004, 06:17 AM
Sounds like sexual harrassment to me, i"d be the one to turn her in for that and see how she like it. Sure bet she would lay off. I agree how good of a hubby you have tostand up to her like that. Not sure mine would, he wouldn't ever cheat but would never think to tell her like yours did. Way to go hubby!!!!!!!
09-26-2004, 10:36 AM
That is a fantastic marriage you have with hubby! I just wanted to chime in that I admire your confidence, and your faith in your husband. I am the jealous type myself, but if your husband is that trustworthy, then you have every right to be so confident. Way to go! :D
Hugs and love,
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