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[Dixiefireball]

well as many of you know i had my surgery yesterday which was a nightmare but not because of my doctor he is wonderful but because of the hosp where i was at and the rude RN's they didn't know there butts from a hole in the ground.
but what makes me so depressed is that today is our wedding anv. we have been married for 13 years and i'm so sore from my surgery i can't enjoy our wedding anv.
today has been pure hell for me i just want to cry my eyes out.
I wish in a way i had put my surgery off until after my wedding anv. but the hunners was so painful they had to be removed i know we can have a night together once i heal but its just not the same.
thanks for listening to me i just needed my friends who understand where i'm coming from to talk to.
sending you all my love.
Rhonda

[ICNDonna]

One thing you might to is to celebrate one month from now. And do something special without the kids, even if it's only going out for a MacDonald's burger (no tomato).

Warm hugs,
Donna

[kelly McC]

Happy anniversary,
Sorry you have to feel like this when its a special day. Sending huggs,
Kelly

[vm]

:kissing: I hope you feel better soon. I think Donna's idea is a great one.

[JudyS]

Rhonda,

I'm so sorry that you had to miss out on your special day. :( *Hugs* Hopefully, though, because you had the surgery done before you celebrate, you will enjoy the celebration even more than you would have if you'd gone out before having the ulcers removed.

I'm also so sorry that your hospital experience was so yucky....it's frustrating to see how very often people like us receive such "care" in the hospital. *hugs* I'm glad that at least your doctor was caring and that hopefully you will get a little relief from the pain.

I pray that you will soon be feeling better and that you have a wonderful postponed anniversary celebration. :pray: You deserve it!!

[Sarojini]

Dixie, I'm sorry you had to postpone your anniversary celebration.... :( My hubby and I had to do that a bit too this year; right around the time of our anniversary (which was our FIRST, by the way) his grandfather passed away, and then I was having trouble with work and ended up quitting, and all the stress had me flaring like crazy. We went out to a quick dinner on our anniversary which was nice, but finally, we are going away to a romantic bed&breakfast in Hot Springs,Arkansas in October (14-16)!!!!!!!! I'm excited!!!!!!

Hopefully, once you feel better, you too will be able to celebrate a belated anniversary too! It doesn't matter if it's on the exact date-- all that matters is that you love each other :)

[SharonA]

:kissing: I am so sorry that the hospital was such a bad experience. You would think that with the expence, they would treat patients better.

Happy Anniversay... :thumbsup:

[liznazz]

I am sorry you are in so much pain. I hope you're feeling better very soon, and then you can celebrate your anniversary!! prayers for you. liz

[lotsofgirls]

Rhonda,
I hope you feel better soon, and congratulations on your wedding anniversary, 13 years is wonderful. Maybe if you set a date to celebrate a month from now you will have something to look forward to.

Sending hugs,
Cath

[DebraLeeS]

So sorry but just think you will feel better soon and have a better time!!:)
Sending you smiles:):)

[moelissat]

I think everybody has the right idea.Once you are feeling better from your surgery,you'll probably enjoy your "celebration" even more! Congratulations
on 13 years!

[XoChelsey03Xo]

:angel: Happy Anniversary. I'm sorry your in so much pain and cannot enjoy it. Do something like Donna said, go and celebrate it a month from now. That way you'll be feeling much better. Chelsey